Otis Redding: These Arms of Mine
Otis Redding: Hard To handle
Otis Redding: (Sittin'On)
James Brown: It's A Man's Man's Man's World
Ben E. King: Stand By Me
Bill Withers: Ain't No Sunshine
Louis Armstrong: What a Wonderful World
Johnny Cash: Hurt
4 Non Blondes: What's Up
Pukul 3 pagi 18 Jun
Lokasi Taman Sri Mewah ..
Berbulan nak menangkap dia..
Bomba JPAM pon tak nak turun bawah sebab dia menyorok...
Kalini dia keluar ...memang memintalah....
Kita sebagai pekerja pun banyak curi masa kat tempat kerja, so janganlah berkira sangat bila bos contact after working hours.
Kita pandai-pandai la fikir, semua pun dah tua bangka
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A man can be deeply in love with you and still walk away without looking back. Why? Because to a sensible man, peace is more valuable than love.
People hate hearing this. They want to believe that if a man loves you, he will endure your chaos forever. That is a lie.
Take the story of David and Simi.
David was a perfect definition of real man.
He was the kind of man who did not just date you, he upgraded you. When he met Simi, she was struggling with her final year project and battling depression. David stepped in. He paid for the research, he stayed up nights proofreading her work, and he got her a job at his friend’s firm after graduation.
David loved Simi with a quiet, intense fire and was planning to propose in April.
But Simi had a problem. Simi believed that a peaceful relationship was boring. She grew up watching toxic movies where passion meant fighting, screaming, and breaking things, only to have makeup sex later. To Simi, David’s calmness looked like weakness.
She started testing him. She would pick fights just to see if he would yell. She would threaten to break up just to see if he would beg. Every time she acted crazy, David would calmly apologize, hold her, and reassure her. She told her friends she had him wrapped around her finger and he could not leave her because he loved her too much.
It happened on the night of David’s biggest career achievement. He was receiving an award at a gala in Victoria Island. All his investors were there. David asked Simi to be ready by 6 PM. Simi decided to test him again. She wanted to see if he would wait for her. She did not start dressing until 7 PM. She ignored his calls. When David finally came to pick her up, he was sweating, anxious, and late.
Instead of apologizing, Simi flared up. She asked him why he was rushing her and if the award was more important than her. She screamed that if he wanted to go, he should go. She expected him to beg. She expected him to say No baby, you are my world.
Instead, David looked at the time. He looked at her, sitting on the bed in her robe, scrolling on TikTok while he stood in his tuxedo. The light in his eyes went out. He wanted to argue but paused and He simply said Okay.
He turned around, walked out of the apartment he paid for, got in his car, and drove to the gala alone.
Simi was shocked. She called him 50 times that night. No answer. She sent texts saying she hated him, then she sent texts saying she was leaving, then she sent texts saying she was sorry. Silence.
The next morning, she woke up to a credit alert. David had sent her two million naira. The narration on the transfer readforr your rent and upkeep. Take care of yourself. She rushed to his house, but the gatekeeper told her Oga had traveled. She called his friends, and they told her to let him go.
Simi spent six months waiting for him to come back. She told everyone he loved her and he would come back because they had a bond. But this time, David was done.
One year later, Simi saw pictures of David’s wedding on Instagram. He married a lady who was not as pretty as Simi. She was not as fashionable. But in every picture, David looked rested. He looked like a man who could finally sleep with both eyes closed.
Simi fell to her knees in her room. She realized too late that she had treated a husband like a fan. She thought his endurance was infinite. She did not know that a man’s tolerance has a breaking point, and once it snaps, not even God can glue it back together.
Do not mistake a man’s patience for stupidity.
En Topacio y Esmeralda, en la colonia Lomas de la Victoria, en Zapopan los tripulantes de una camioneta Urus de Lamborghini, fue rafagueada por tripulantes de al menos dos camionetas y los escoltas que viajaban en otra camioneta repelieron la agresión generando el enfrentamiento
Secara umum, wanita memang dibina dengan orientasi safety & comfort-first, bukan flow & efficiency-first. Ini bukan kecacatan tetapi fungsi biologi.
Sistem saraf wanita lebih sensitif terhadap persekitaran, ancaman, dan overstimulation kerana tugas asalnya ialah memelihara kehidupan, bukan mengoptimumkan pergerakan massa.
Maka apabila berada di ruang awam, naluri utama yang aktif ialah:
“Di mana aku rasa selamat dan selesa?”
bukan
“Bagaimana aku memudahkan orang lain bergerak?”
Sebab tu dalam konteks crowd management, spatial awareness wanita sering lemah kerana keutamaan neurologi yang berbeza.
Masalah hanya timbul apabila dua perkara berlaku serentak:
Pertama, wanita berada terlalu lama dan terlalu kerap dalam domain awam, dan kedua, tiada struktur maskulin peribadi which is suami atau wali yang secara halus menjadi anchor tingkah laku mereka kepada kesedaran sosial yang lebih luas.
Secara tradisi, fungsi ini dijalankan oleh suami atau wali untuk:
1. menyerap kebisingan dunia luar
2. membaca ruang dan situasi
3. membuat keputusan mikro dengan pantas
4. menanggung kesilapan sosial supaya wanita tidak perlu berbuat demikian
Apabila peranan ini digantikan oleh kerajaan, majikan, prosedur, atau “sistem”, wanita tidak belajar situational correction secara interpersonal.
Sebab itu nasihat spontan seperti:
“Ganjak sikit, bagi orang masuk.”
Selalunya tidak tembus.
Bukan semata-mata kerana degil, tetapi kerana ia datang daripada lelaki asing tanpa autoriti bermakna dalam struktur psikologi mereka. Arahan tanpa hubungan hierarki jarang diinternalisasi.
Di sinilah hikmahnya kenapa wanita perlu ditemani dalam domain awam. Kehadiran suami atau wali mampu:
1. Kurangkan situasi janggal yang wanita tak perlu hadap seorang diri
2. Tolong buat keputusan kecil yang remeh tapi kerap, yang kalau fikir sendiri boleh buat penat dan serabut
3. Ambil alih konflik dengan orang luar sebelum ia sampai kepada wanita itu
4. Menjaga maruah wanita itu sendiri tanpa dia perlu “berkeras/berdegil”.
Hakikatnya hari ini, lambakan wanita di ruang awam berlaku bukan semata-mata kerana pilihan individu, tetapi akibat tekanan ekonomi riba, struktur kerja moden al bana, dan pemisahan fungsi jantina yang sistemik.
Dan ya sebagai lelaki, kita terpaksa hadap kecelakaan ini. Terima kasih ulama' bank kerana membantu mempercepatkan penyebaran riba' ke seluruh alam.
Bertapa bosan nya hidup zaman dulu sampai kena talipon Era Pazirra nak tahu dia suka air apa.
Siapa dulu pernah call hantu kat Mastika ?
Cam babik je debor. Lepas tu bil talipon tinggi.
Salah satu sifat manusia yang paling teruk ialah tidak tahu bersyukur dan tak pernah rasa cukup.
Dah ada yang elok, nak lagi elok.
Dah ada yang baik, nak lagi baik.
Tanamlah sifat qanaah dalam diri. Sifat cukup atas apa yg telah dimiliki. Insya-Allah kita akan lebih tenang.
Detik detik 2 pemuda ini Lagi asik santai tiba-tiba tempat tongkrongan ambruk dan mereka masuk parit
Dan seketika Musik yang mereka putar mati dan membuat hening suasana.
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