ElToroLoco

[ً @artfuIchaos]

dealing with my fear of rejection by never asking for anything and my fear of being a burden by doing everything alone

[ritual @rituolistic]

nvm this skin is ass #refunded

[ElToroLoco @0711_eleven]

@holisticbaddie Idc, I had a hard time w things growing up. I always wanted my parents to save money. Time spent together is more my love language than anything. I know bc my dad passed away. I don’t need anything of his really,He’s in my heart. I only need him, I’ve only ever just needed others

[Jum @JesterJum]

Something shifted in me in the past couple years since I hit 30 and I believe a lot of Millenials are seeing this shift as well.

I have done everything I was ever told that would make me successful.

I busted my ass and worked my way up the ladder (hell, I make more money than 95% of others in this country)

I became dependable.

I built a life that looks good on paper.

But now I am sitting here...in my 30s thinking that I don't want to do this anymore.

I don't want the same version of success that my parents and grandparents thought I needed.

I still want money (duh)

I still want ambition.

But mainly, I want time.

Slow mornings.

Random spur of the moment trips away with my family.

I don't want to spend my whole life recovering from work on a Saturday and then preparing for work on a Sunday.

Not because I am lazy. I am the least lazy person you will ever meet.

Not because I hate work.

But because I have finally realized that there has to be more to life than the version of success I was sold as a kid.

Am I the only one feeling this way right now?

[ElToroLoco @0711_eleven]

@kkrespawned Not part of the generation either but I’m also part of my dad died generation and I’ll let my sons stay with their dad a little longer even if it means they might not adjust the best. Bc if I could have had that, I would have. I didn’t adjust good either way. #sensitivesally

[ElToroLoco @0711_eleven]

@tanylake I so relate to ppl not listening to part. Maybe I am terrible at articulating anything but almost everytime, I warn them of things, or tell them my findings, they don’t see it, then a couple months later they figure it out bc they have to. Complex work sux. explaining complex sux

[​𝐥𝐲𝐫𝐚 @sunnkssdseraph]

My therapist asked me what I would do with my time if no one needed anything from me for a full week. I said I had no idea. She asked if that felt like freedom or like panic. Panic, I said, immediately. She said, when empty time feels like a threat, it means your identity is entirely built on being needed. And that is a fragile thing to build a life on. I drove home and looked at my diary and noticed how little of it was actually mine.

[ElToroLoco @0711_eleven]

@Fortnite Where the dislike button at

[auntie majic @1800buddha]

I know im gonna lose respect for a shirt once i fall asleep in it but i do it anyway

[ElToroLoco @0711_eleven]

@tanylake recently discovered that there might be heat going on between some ppl I know. If I would have been in an environment I was always in I would have got roped in. I think God was looking out for me and removed me so the confrontation would avoid me. God knows what he’s doing🙏🫂

[ꕤ @rakkofan]

i wake up, i cry over spilt milk, put all of my eggs in one basket, bite off more than i can chew, jump the gun, fly off the handle and then die on that hill

[ElToroLoco @0711_eleven]

My discoveries when trying to fix anal gland issues on the dog. Vets thought I was looney for wanting high fiber in dogs diet and not the stuff they wanted. Haven’t had a single anal gland issue in years. I’ve tested this too, and went back low fiber and gland issues reappear🫨

[Bryan Johnson @bryan_johnson]

This is too much. Talking about bowel movements in public is TMI.

[kache @yacineMTB]

My toddler is only ever going to be this age once. This time is so very precious. Like a stream of water, I can't hold on to it, itll just slip through my fingers, but I can feel it pass. This is awful

[Hassan Mafi ‏ @thatdayin1992]

Americans realizing thier gov has been illegally taxing them for over a year and billionaires are getting the refund instead of the customers

[Liz Is Amused @lizisamused]

Men say women are too uptight about cleanliness.

I see you as a fellow slob, but I RAISE you as a female slob.

I have ADHD. I'm clean (sanitize surfaces frequently, clean bathroom, clean sheets), but I'm a clutter monster.

Zero men I've lived with have celebrated how "relaxed" I am.

Because men subconsciously expect women to do what I call house elf labor.

You don't notice a spotless kitchen with everything put away even if you never bother to put things away.

You notice when a woman you live with ALSO doesn't bother to put things away.

And you get quite frustrated about it. You turn into the "nags" you hate.

Men bitch when a woman is tidier than he is and expects him to try, but they bitch harder when a woman is on his level or worse.

You call her uptight, but if she stopped bothering for a month, you'd drown in your own filth and blame her for it 💀

[Homeschool Life LLC | Jonathan Prescott @Homeschool_LLC]

When they cry when you drop them off and cry when you pick them up, you know in your heart they need to be with you.

[FEMME MUSE @itsthefemmemuse]

Very chic as a woman to fuel yourself properly, understand your menstrual cycle, have confidence in who you are, not be a gossip, read books and write letters, stand up for what you believe in, have friendships that last decades, understand energy and prioritise yourself.

[ElToroLoco @0711_eleven]

One day you wake up and your family is gone and you have started your own family that developed in a blink of an eye and you are sitting wondering about life, and realize that it’s super short. A super short life filled with MEH. You could say I’m in a bit of a rut.

[Justine Bateman @JustineBateman]

If you live to be 84, that’s 30 years. Wouldn’t you tell a 20 year old that between now and age 50, they were going to live a lot of life? You’re no different.

[ElToroLoco @0711_eleven]

@GreatLakesWife_ I think it goes away with time. The feeling that you should do it all, but then we are *brutally reminded that we cannot do it all. Again, and again, and again until we say maybe you should just try this time tonight 😉