lesbians wearing suits to their weddings? completely fine. gay men wearing gowns? considered extremely controversial.
the reason? femininity is portrayed as humiliation and weakness. at the end of the day, misogyny is everywhere for those with eyes to see it.
It’s kinda super annoying that the same type of people who shat all over heated rivalry for how popular it got vs lesbian shows are now in the qrts saying this isn’t worth watching bc it doesn’t check every arbitrary box they’ve created to be like “morally good” like fuck off omg