Once you learn how to shop directly from China, E.g Temù or shien your wardrobe changes completely. Call me cheap I don't care I ain't rich, I don't do fraud.😭
It's knowing what to search for.
Here's my style after making plenty of mistakes.
1. T-shirts:
Skip 100% polyester unless you're buying gym wear.
Instead, search:
• 100% Cotton
• Combed Cotton
• Heavyweight Cotton
• 240-300 GSM Cotton
• Premium Cotton
• Mercerized Cotton
The heavier the GSM, the thicker and more premium the shirt usually feels.
2. Jeans:
Denim Jeans
Temu is surprisingly good for denim if you know what to search.
Search:
• Denim Jeans
• Cotton Denim
• Raw Denim
• Selvedge Denim (if available)
• 98% Cotton + 2% Elastane
• 99% Cotton
Avoid jeans with high polyester content. The more cotton, the better they'll age and feel.
3. Body-hug clothing:
Search:
• Ribbed Knit
• Modal
• Viscose Blend
• Cotton-Spandex Blend
They hold their shape much better than cheap polyester.
4. Hoodies
Search:
• 400 GSM
• French Terry
• Cotton Fleece
• Heavyweight Hoodie
5. Chains
Search:
• 316L Stainless Steel
• Titanium Steel
• PVD Gold Plated
• Vacuum Plated
These are far more resistant to fading than ordinary fashion jewelry.
6. Earrings
Search:
• 925 Sterling Silver
• 316L Stainless Steel
• Hypoallergenic
• Moissanite (if you're buying stones)
7. Scarves
Search:
• Mulberry Silk
• Silk Blend
• Cashmere Blend
• Wool Blend
• Viscose
Avoid the shiny, thin polyester scarves if you're after a premium look.
8. Loafers
Search:
• Genuine Leather
• Cow Leather
• Full Grain Leather (rare but worth looking for)
• Rubber Outsole
9. Sneakers
Search:
• Rubber Outsole
• EVA Midsole
• Breathable Mesh
• Leather Upper
• Stitched Sole
Pictures lie a lot
The description usually tells the truth.
Here's how I shop:
1. Read the material composition before anything else.
2. Sort by Most Orders or Best Selling, not cheapest.
3. Only buy products with lots of reviews or pictures or even better when a Nigerian has purchased it before they always tell the truth.
4. Read the 1-star reviews first. They'll tell you what the seller won't.
5. Look at customer photos, not the product photos.
6. Check the weight of the product. Better quality clothing is often heavier.
7. Read the size chart. Don't assume your Nigerian size matches.
8. If the title has words like "luxury," "premium," or "designer" but the material is 100% polyester, not everything but still move on.
Your best friend isn't the product picture.
It's the material, the reviews, and the customer photos.
That's how you separate the gems from the junk.
I hope this help.
Things are to expensive for a country this poor.
1. When I first started my fitness journey, 1 hour walk at lunch for a was my mode. I didn’t make much progress for a year, then I started skipping (1 hour), still didn’t make much progress but it made me aerobically fit (unwittingly), 1 evening I decided to walk to the shops…
Breaking: Your smart TV takes a screenshot of your screen twice every second and sells what it sees.
It is called ACR, and it has been running since you set the TV up.
Texas already sued over it. Here is how to turn it off in under 2 minutes:
You're probably buying a refurbished iPhone from that vendor, and you don't even know.
You can check by simply opening your Settings.
Go to: Settings → General → About → Model Number.
You'll see something like MQ3D3LL/A
That first letter tells you everything.
M = New.
Bought originally from an official Apple store.
F = Refurbished.
Repaired at a service center after a fault.
N = Replacement.
Apple swapped this out for someone at some point.
P = Personalized.
Someone ordered this with a custom engraving.
.....
NOTE:
None of these is automatically bad, but you deserve to know what you're paying for.
If your model number starts with M or P, you're fine.
But if you see N (replacement) or F (refurbished), that's when you should be extra careful.
I'll explain these two in another post.
Please share for others.
Prompts
1. Headshot:
Turn this image into an Ultra realistic professional studio headshot, with a clean neutral background. Soft studio lighting with centered key light, gentle fill, natural shadows.
Sharp focus on eyes. Real skin texture with pores. No retouch look.
85mm lens, shallow depth of field, high resolution, DSLR quality.
Negative:
blurry, distorted face, bad anatomy, stiff pose, plastic skin, over retouched, harsh lighting, AI artifacts
2.
Infographic CV
Knowing everything you know about Mercy Thaddeus. Make a detailed infographic about her work and make a CV using the attached image as headshot
3.
LinkedIn profile
Create a realistic LinkedIn desktop profile screenshot.
Use the exact uploaded photo. Do not edit the face. Only crop to a circular profile image.
Match real LinkedIn layout and spacing. No redesign.
Use a minimal banner with soft neutral colors and subtle abstract tech lines. Place short text on the right.
Keep it clean and natural. No mockup feel
70% of Nigerian men don't have 5 million naira in their account, some are even here crashing out on Elon's paycheck. 60% of my male friends from highschool that had big dreams haven't left their parents home like me 😭 Nigeria don't produce rich men like before, manage and build with the one you have now.
Check the model number before buying a used device. Look at the first letter of the model number:
M – Brand new device
F – Refurbished by Apple or a carrier
N – Replacement device (issued for a faulty unit)
P – Personalized (engraved) device
THE JOB MARKET IS SATURATED, FOLLOW THIS 10 RULES THINGS IF YOU WANT YOUR CV TO STAND OUT
RULE 10 is the most underrated
1, DO NOT SAVE YOUR RESUME AS RESUME(1).pdf
Instead, save it as firstname_lastname_jobtitle.
It stands out to recruiters and also helps rank you with the ATS systems!
2, ALWAYS EXPORT AS PDF (unless the job posting says Word).
PDFs keep your formatting perfect on every device and screen. Word files can break when opened in different versions, instant rejection vibe.
3, TAILOR YOUR RESUME FOR EVERY SINGLE APPLICATION.
Copy and paste the exact keywords and phrases from the job description into your bullet points. ATS scans for matches, miss them and your resume goes straight to the trash folder.
4, KEEP IT TO ONE PAGE (if you have <10 years experience).
Recruiters spend an average of 7 seconds on the first scan. Two pages = they stop at page 1. Make every line count.
5, DITCH THE FANCY TEMPLATES, COLUMNS, AND GRAPHICS.
ATS hates tables, text boxes, icons, and weird fonts. Use a clean, one-column layout with standard fonts (Arial, Calibri, or Times New Roman 10-12 pt). Simple wins.
6, START EVERY BULLET WITH A STRONG ACTION VERB.
“Led,” “Optimized,” “Generated,” “Increased,” “Launched.”
Never start with “Responsible for,” “Helped,” or “Assisted.” Action verbs make you sound like a boss, not a bystander.
7, QUANTIFY EVERY ACHIEVEMENT WITH NUMBERS.
“ Increased sales by 47%” beats “Helped increase sales” every single time.
No numbers? Use percentages, dollar amounts, or time saved. Recruiters love proof.
8, PUT YOUR CONTACT INFO AT THE VERY TOP (and make it clickable).
Name (huge), phone, professional email, LinkedIn URL, location (city + state only, no full address).
Make your LinkedIn URL custom (https://t.co/qW68q7jVJs) so it looks pro.
9, ADD A 3-LINE PROFESSIONAL SUMMARY AT THE TOP.
Tell them in 2 seconds who you are, what you do, and what you deliver. No objective statements from 2005 recruiters hate those.
10, PROOFREAD LIKE YOUR LIFE DEPENDS ON IT (because it does).
Run it through Grammarly or any AI + read it out loud. One typo can set you back.
Bonus 11: Update your resume every 3-4 months even if you’re not job hunting.
Save this list. Your future self (and your inbox full of interview requests) will thank you.
Comment “Template” for my free cv template guide for each industry
List of things you can buy him in return
Wallet
Watch
Wireless earbuds
Bluetooth speaker
Sneakers
Leather belt
Cologne
Beard grooming kit
Electric shaver
Gym bag
Personalized keychain
Photo frame
Smartwatch
Sunglasses
Hoodie
Portable projector
Whiskey glass set
Coffee maker
Gaming controller
Backpack
Tool kit
Massage gun
Laptop sleeve
Book
Perfume sampler set
Car accessories kit
Slippers
Bracelet
Custom photo book
Weekend getaway voucher
it’s actually terrifying how much my brain has changed since i stopped being a bookworm. it’s not just about the attention span, though that’s definitely gone
i can’t even sit still for ten minutes without reaching for a distraction.
but the bigger shift is how it feels like my inner world has gone grey. i’m not nearly as creative as i used to be and that quiet, calm headspace i used to have is just gone. i feel like i’ve lost my vocabulary and my ability to articulate how i actually feel, so everything i say feels surface level and repetitive.
even my curiosity feels stunted. i used to wonder about things for hours, but now if i don’t get an immediate answer, i just lose interest. it’s like i traded my imagination for a shorter fuse and a total lack of focus. my personality used to have so much more color and depth, and now it feels like i'm just reacting to things instead of actually thinking. i'm just trying to remember how to be that person again.
One thing I noticed about this young guy, Speed is that he is disciplined like Cristiano Ronaldo. He’s not the type to want to please people.
In Zlatan’s store, when he was given alcohol and told there were girls for him, he turned both down. He could have taken one shot but nah, he turned it down.
In this video, the referee was trying to make him happy by saying he’s the winner, he told him, “I didn’t win bro”. Told the guy he’s wrestling with “don’t go easy on me”, he’s that real with his content creation life and whatever comes out of it.
That’s top mentality from a 21 year old guy, applaudable👏🏽👏🏽
1. Venue - N500k?
You don't need a reception. Do a church wedding on a weekday and curate good and simple souvenirs with well packaged food, hand it over to those who made it to church and bid them farewell
In the evening, have a small circle get together, maybe an evening of worship with close family and friends - save N500k for reception venue
2. Hair and Makeup - cut that budget to max 100k. What are you wearing?
3&4 - Your decision to scrap a reception will save you from DJ, MC and N550k. Find a close pal to anchor the hangout
5. Cake - take communion and if you must have cake, N50k is actually fine for your small hangout
6. Sourvenirs - N300k. Anywhere it reaches we thank God, after all, years after the wedding nobody remembers if you did or not. I can't even remember the souvenirs that were done in my siblings weddings
7. Drinks - N250k 👍
8. Deco - N200k
9. If you scrap your reception, you will successfully be able to do catering conveniently for N750k
10. Videography and Photography - N500k. Please don't use iphone camera.😂 You need these pictures for life
11. Outfits - N500k should be enough please. What exactly are are the two of you wearing for N1.5M on a budget of 6M? There's nothing you're wearing for 1million naira that won't get outdated in time and on the grand schemes of things, nobody really cares
You would have saved over N3M nobody really gives a care about for you and your wife while still having a good time with close family. If una like, una fit use the 3M change shop Suya😂
Tips from a sex educator:
- Make sure it’s something you truly want.
- Do it with someone you feel safe with.
- Take it slow. Relaxation, lubrication and lots of foreplay matter.
- You can change your mind any time.
- You may or may not bleed. That’s okay.
- You may not orgasm. That’s okay too.
- Always, always use a condom.
- Try the shallowing technique.
- Your first time won’t be perfect. It might feel awkward. That’s okay. It gets better.
And finally: you don’t “lose” anything, you gain a new experience and life goes on.