@SigilPapi@asemota You think he's a P-ssy cuz he rather stay safe and guided than lose his mind ??
People like you open The 7 Books of Moses.. And get delusional from the first page then blame village people
@michaelinioluwa Hello. I am Interested in the AI & semiconductor stocks group however. I wish to offer a more group driven method where we analyse full data centers and look into their components stocks. Which heavily include semiconductors and AI. Helps understand trending waves better
Don’t believe everything you think. Just because a thought shows up in your mind doesn’t mean it’s true or deserves your trust.
A lot of our suffering comes from accepting every thought without questioning it. Learn to pause, challenge the narrative, and choose what you allow to shape your reality.
Let's make a practical example to clear this up.
You go shopping for an outfit, you see two shirts that you like but as a normal person, you can only wear one.
Same with trousers, a jacket, etc.
At the end of the day you make an outfit consisting of one of each option.
Now is that a FULL
OPTION outfit, or just an outfit?
It's just an outfit, you can come up with multiple outfits, but none can have every option selected.
Ergo, nothing such as a full option car.
Let me tell you personal experience…
My ex wife once suggested that we should start plans to have our own house. She said we should buy land first, then build later.
At that time, we were living in a three bedroom flat. It was my duty to provide the house and I was doing that without stress. The place was good. We had two kids and space was not a problem at all.
One day she told me she had seen a land close to where we lived. I said that was fine, but I was clear with her. I told her I did not have money to buy land at that time.
She then said buying the land would not be a problem. That was when she told me she had some money from her job and she could pay for the land. Her idea was that she would buy the land and I would build later.
I did not reject the idea. I told her I would think about it. After some time, I agreed. I said since you have the money now, let us go and see the land. She arranged everything.
We went together and met the land owner directly. The land was affordable and after talking back and forth, we agreed on a price and paid.
When it was time to do the papers, I told them to write only her full name. I told them my name should only be there as a witness. I did this on purpose. I knew her character. I told her clearly that it was her land.
I see a lot of comments saying he should be arrested, I AGREE WITH YALL but then again, all through the stretch of this road, I didn’t see a single signage about “speed limits”
Point is… you can’t break a traffic law that is nonexistent or one that leaves room for plausible deniability.
I live in a province that is bigger than the entire Nigeria in Landmass, with smoother, more spacious roads but you can’t go upto 2km on the 401 without seeing a signage about the maximum allowed speed limits & possible fines if you’re caught “stunt driving” or overspeeding.
Maybe someday Nigeria will start to prioritize the safety of its road users with clear signage, consistent enforcement & holding drivers accountable..until then, make everybody dey do falafolo go.👐
Read this somewhere:👇🏾
1. Life can give you 5 kids and take them all again when you are just watching.
2. Life can also give you one child and allow you to grow old as you watch him grow.
3. The same life can give you a sweet marriage without children, it can also give you beautiful children without marriage OR give you a beautiful marriage, lots of money and children that need medical attention consistently.
4. The same life can give you very good academic papers without employment.
5. It can as well choose not to allow you to have any papers but allow you to be successful in business.
LIFE 🤔
This year I witnessed something that has refused to leave my mind.
A man I know in Abuja, had the biggest opportunity of his career. A real, life changing deal. The kind that can move you and your family into a new chapter forever. He prepared for weeks. Studied every detail my team and I even assisted him to put some structures in place. He rehearsed every answer. He was ready.
Then the morning of the meeting…..everything fell apart.
His fiancée started a fight.
Something small. Something that could have waited.
But it did not.
Texts. Long calls. Voice notes. Accusations. Tears.
Threats to leave. Demands for attention.
Emotional warfare on the one morning he desperately needed peace.
He kept saying, “Please. I have a very important meeting. Let me handle this when I get back”.
It did not stop.
By the time he walked into the boardroom, he was already finished.
He was late, his eyes were tired, mind scattered and a heavy heart.
He called me, I was like “guy how far, goodnews?”
He said “Slim I need your help, I am in trouble”
My man couldn’t even put himself together….. lover boy.
He tried to speak but the confidence was gone.
He forgot things he knew by heart.
He was not the man they believed in.
He was simply a man trying to hold himself together.
And right there…. the deal slipped away.
Afterwards he called. I went to the venue. He sat in silence afterwards. Phone still buzzing. But he just stared at it. No anger. No reaction. Just that empty look people get when they finally realize how expensive emotional chaos can be.
Not expensive in money.
Expensive in destiny.
Sometimes the biggest threat to your future is not the competition.
It is the constant storm in your personal life.
Peace is not luxury.
Peace is focus.
Peace is clarity.
Peace is survival.
He is going into 2026 starting from zero again. Not because he was lazy. Not because he was unprepared.
But because the one person who should have protected his focus….. became the reason he lost it.
Love should steady you.
Not drain you.
Not shake your mind before the moment that matters most.
Choose partners who understand timing.
Choose partners who respect your work.
Choose partners who do not pick the worst possible moment to pull you into emotional chaos.
Because sometimes…. one argument at the wrong time
Can cost you the opportunity you waited your whole life to meet.