PLAYERS: Eye contact is a sign of respect. Often times it says more about you than it does the person talking. You might be bored, disagree with the person, or not like what is being said, but you can still show respect and demonstrate what kind of character you have.
Focusing on yourself, taking care of yourself & well-being, putting your self first, doing what's best for you is NOT selfish! When you do those things AND disregard others, that's selfish!
I study more than people think. So when we start talking about topics Iโm familiar with, itโs shocking to them (I see it on their faces and listen to their responses). And thatโs mainly because if I know nothing about it... Iโll say absolutely nothing.
Just a thought homie, maybe itโs because your intentions are centered towards self. Iโve found once Iโve become a giving or โniceโ individual for the sole purpose of helping others without expecting anything in return, well thatโs when things start to move.