Reducing what goes on in a boy’s head on his birthday to fake maturity is an evidence to how insensitive the other gender can be to a boy, many times even in relationships.
For boys, a lot of expectations are attached to age
While birthday is a call for studio photoshoot for some
for many boys, new age is a reminder of the apartment of their own that they should have had
It’s a reminder that they are getting too old to be where they’re financially, academically and relationship wise etc
On a normal day a boy could just sit and start thinking of how to move forward in life, that thinking is more intense on a birthday
So if they don’t send a picture of themselves as broadcast to all contacts on WhatsApp group for a repost, it’s not a flex
They are grateful for life, but when they have something truly worth celebrating they won’t hold back
It’s not fake maturity, we are usually on a date with reality and reality is not friendly.
If you’re unhappy, find purpose.
If you’re broke, learn a high paying skill.
If you’re unattractive, change your barber, and hit the gym.
If you’re single, go outside more.
If you’re tired of life, go back home, open up to family.
If you feel no one is listening, talk to God.
The difference between your uncle that left Nigeria 20 years ago and your parents is enough to let you know that you should do anything in your power to escape this country
If Davido father can sit and defend his SON on an alleged matter, I am just imagining how Jesus Christ is defending us every time we mess up, he’s our advocate!!!!. If Jesus is your advocate just say “Thank you Jesus”