@iluvsaka its hard to bring this kinda discussion to football because it does border on a sort of social science which people arent equipped to think about, particularly since football to them operates as something 'outside' of the real world
@faintlimits they wouldnt treat a man like this either, whether he was a muslim or not. its only when its a muslim woman they suddenly expect this virtuous behaviour
shit like this is why i couldnt do a job that required me to have to deal with the delicate nature of people, its actually insanely tough man different stratosphere of mental fortitude
One of the hardest things I’ve had to do was look a man in his hopeful, desperate eyes and tell him that his wife would most likely pass away within an hour. And she did. I’m still so shaken by this shift. I went home with an extremely heavy heart. I’m usually able to separate my emotions from my work and detach, but that really got to me. He still had hope for her. He really did :(