if you didn’t have time to process all that hurt, it’ll come back up. it was in the past but emotions transcend time & they’re not linear. it doesn’t matter how long it’s been. if it wasn’t confronted then it’s somewhere, lying dormant waiting for attention. it still matters.
reminding you: the voice in your head telling you that you don’t deserve good things isn’t yours. it was put in there by people who didn’t deserve to experience you. the more you ignore it, the quieter it will become - replace it with your own voice. you deserve good things 🫶🏽
If your partner is struggling, having bad days, doing less, sleeping more, I can not stress this enough. PICK UP THEIR SLACK and do NOT throw it in their face or complain about it. Do it with extra love and a smile on your face because I promise you they need it.
i'd be lying if i said i didn't get in my feelings about the way people treat me, but i've learned it's life & everybody isn't me. everybody don't show the same love i show.... &' for that i'll be okay.