@jabu1ani This is a 2 way thing. #1 Xolani is the problem, he's the 1 with a wife & yet he's chasing skirts, Noxolo must deal with Xolani her man. #2, Women don't listen, if a man is taken, don't be his side dish. Love yourself enough coz then u'll 1 day face this 4 ur lack of self respect