What the husband needs to lose weight: Do 7k steps daily, skip a meal.
What I need to do to lose weight: 15k steps daily, avoid all the food that sparks joy, portion control for the food I can actually eat, provide a hefty sacrifice to the gods of weightloss, prayer and fasting.
“I wanted to like this class, but on the first day, he submerged us in a river instead of going over the syllabus, and that was kind of a lot.”
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The deeper you heal, the higher you raise the bar on who has access to you. And, it's not out of arrogance, it's about protecting the peaceful, calm, drama-free life you've worked so hard to elevate. This new chapter requires you to be less accessible to any type of toxicity.
emotionally unavailable people create emotionally unavailable people. it doesn’t happen overnight. it’s when someone is enthusiastic about showing their care and attention, and they get told they’re too overwhelming or too much. it destroys the spirit of passionate people
I've been asking my male friends to do something - *watch if the first response to everything a woman tells you is to refute, say no or something negative*
One texted me later: Holy f*ck
The problem is, constantly putting up with unwarranted resistance is bad for mental health.
@Aderinsola_O It could be for many reasons: overworked HR/hiring managers, budget cuts, hiring bosses who vacillate endlessly, lack of internal planning & coordination. In the end, ghosting of this level is a good reason to say bye to bad rubbish. Cos the organisation is probably shit anyway.