@BoiBaby314 @emmazy96 @chiomabayo @Shittu_Olamide7 you made an adult decision and you should now be able to decide if the age gap matters. Don't hook up with strangers and don't give them money, and you wont be taken advantage of
@BoiBaby314 @emmazy96 @chiomabayo @Shittu_Olamide7 So because manipulation is possible, don't live your life? If you hook up with that 28 year old before knowing him, then you chose to whether he's a creep or not. If you waited for awhile to get to know the person first, and he wasn't just trying to get you in bed,
@doIceksj@AD_Tonnee@Lindo__Zulu@Cherrybomb781@jacnive @chiomabayo Lying about your age rather than having an honest but uncomfortable conversation about the age gap. Which is exactly what you said. It's not legal to force a person to do anything. If the older guy isn't one of the first people you've been with, what's being taken advantage of?
@_creepeloid_ @Esethu_S_ @jacnive @chiomabayo I see. I was reading a bunch of this thread, and I just happened to come across three of yours in a row. Was just curious if there was a specific reason you were referring to one group, like a culture specific problem I wouldn't be aware of.
@okaynamii @strawbrained @BTS63295103 @emmazy96 @chiomabayo @Shittu_Olamide7 I think either parents or some other older role model should have a part in helping a young adult do what's appropriate. Far too many guys are gross and think 18 is some magic number to wait for. But it's just as bad to say any older guy that loves a young woman is just using her
You have a very dark view of people. Where as I know there are great people just like there are creeps. I'm not going to generalize and become ignorant to reality. I know a few couples that are at least 10 years apart. Most have been married for decades.
@ChiChiTheAuthor @Milou_vanH @FarLFT @chiomabayo And if a 20 and 30 y o are friends and find out 6 months later they like each other, should they just stop being friends for 5 years so the younger one
@ChiChiTheAuthor @Milou_vanH @FarLFT @chiomabayo Work. Friends. Family. Hobbies and shared interests. Especially if both started a career right out of high school. Then they're basically at the same point in life. What kind of people do you know that you can't relate and enjoy the company of people of any age.
That's why you get to know someone first. The only people that will try to compensate are the ones so obsessed with societal norms, that they feel if they don't go through a partying phase, they are incomplete. But I'm guessing if he's marrying her, he knows shes not that shallow
@vsletsoalo @dumisapraise @chiomabayo Somewhere in her late twenties she going to wild out, it's called compensatory behavior, unconsciously yearning for a period in your life you believe you missed out on. But all the best hope yours is the exception
@ChrisKuda94 @FKAMcButtz @WiccaRockz@talkingtoomush @chiomabayo Sex for money, OK, but not sex with feelings. . Being paid money to get naked for the same guys you say they aren't old enough to date... Fucking feminism.
@rebel_reece @chiomabayo He didn't trust you not do what half the immature people of any age do. Get caught up in their own self centeredness, flirt and end up blowing some dude in the bathroom for an ego boost. The main point is maturity. Not age, but wisdom and empathy to not think only of oneself.
@Esethu_S_ @_creepeloid_@jacnive @chiomabayo Why do you keep making it about race? Do whites and hispanics have it so much easier than black girls with older men?
@Esethu_S_ @ConfessionRSA @jacnive @chiomabayo find casual hookups with strangers kinda gross, so the only way I'd ever date a younger girl would be after plenty of time getting to know them. Though I know a couple who were 17 and 27. Only ever were with each other. Married after dating a year, and now married for 50 years
@Esethu_S_ @ConfessionRSA @jacnive @chiomabayo Most 18 year olds nowadays have double the body count I do. If they're mature enough to sleep with half the football team, they're grown enough to not get taken advantage of at 18. But no a 28 year old should not be an 18 year olds first time. That is creepy. But I personally