Hi there, and welcome to our profile!
We’re just a system on the internet, but we choose to be relatively anonymous. The internet isn’t a safe place, so we have to navigate it carefully.
Thanks for reading! We’ll make a better pinned post soon! 💕
@seraphsanctity Shoutout to our ex friend who faked DID during psychosis last year and then went on FB live a few months ago crying about how we were enabling and abusing her after we stopped being friends with her over it ✨
Can’t believe that happened.
@Fragmented_Sys It may also be that you’re not noticing it. We find that our system awareness is very poor when we’re in social situations because we tend to be more stressed about external things.
@DrSamiSchalk I’ve never done it after a traumatic event, but I did do it before one. (We had a surgery and have surgical trauma) I think it did sort of help in the long run, because it ended up being vastly less traumatic than expected, and we didn’t panic nearly as bad.
@Pr0xiii This is how it used to be, so we don’t mind it. But also why change THIS back but not the most hated new feature (swipe to reply replacing swipe to view member list.)
Idk. At the same time we’re very aware that trauma can cause all sorts of behaviors that are problematic, especially where DID is concerned. Negative emotions can literally become whole people who exist to be a problem. We get where it comes from but that doesn’t make it ok.
It’s weird how many rules systems impose on one another for both existing and content creation, just saying.
We shouldn’t be gatekeeping one another like this. It’s fucking weird. Mind y’all’s own business I’m begging you.
I guess this is just internet culture at this point, but I don’t see so much gatekeeping and shit ass behavior in the majority of other mental health spaces we’re in.
Like the autistic community is just chilling and having fun, and systems are bullying the fuck out of each other
TLDR we’ve never seen so much discourse in a community like this in our life and it’s like- a little annoying at this point. Our lives have ALL been hard enough without you guys actively TRYING to hurt each other.
One thing about being a system that no one talks about is how people often immediately take you less seriously if you had your system discovery or diagnosis after 2020.
Systems get written off as fakers in a trend so easily now.
This is why we choose to stay anonymous. Naturally we try our best to- you know- not vastly fuck up, but the world has become more and more hostile, cancel happy. It’s safest to be a nobody.
It’s so weird to us when people rag on systems for being too serious about their inner worlds. Like- yeah, they know it isn’t a real tangible place. Let them cope with their disorder their way ffs
@vicegirls We used to experience extremely severe denial, but it lessened significantly over the years. We think it had something to do with our diagnosis, and also us constantly making an archive of anything that made us feel validated.