βNobody in the world,
nobody in history, has
ever gotten their
freedom by appealing to
the moral sense of the
people who were
oppressing them.β
- Assata Shakur
Self defence and violence is literally necessary against people who are actively seeking to destroy you. Itβs natural
@papi_wild This!
OMFG like I live with it like a curse. Understand that I love my homosexuality dearly, it walks with me into every room I enter. But you see that attraction to men. The bottom barrel they're. Gods help me π
I'm actually terrified of the global cutbacks on sexual (reproductive) health. Contraceptives gone, PREP gone, condoms gone. People fought and died for decades to make this care available.
I love Okpa, but the way Easterners are pushing it as superior to Moi Moi is DIABOLICAL!
Moi Moi always clears abeg. Okpa is good, but Moi Moi is better please.
Our parents be saying the dumbest sh!t and because of this frustrating Nigerian culture of "respect" we just have to listen, nod and "mmhmm" our way through a conversation that should end with a simple, "You're dumb, pls STFU!"
I'm tired wallah.
@Mickscot2 What made you think I rushed to comment? Lol
Story is still useless because it is implying he did some big thing by going away after she didn't pick, as if her picking would have materialized a bridge for him to cross and get home.
Great point in the follow up Xeet about what role misogyny plays in this and this is a deeply rooted community rot we need to collectively address.
The hold our heteropatriachal programming has on us makes us view passive and active roles in sex in a way bottom = shame! ... X/3
I always find it weird when y'all get offended about the question of roles honestly. "Roles" is a perfect ice breaker for any conversation that will lead to something more. You people get cagey about the most basic shit. Grow up abeg.
Since no one wants to be bear shame and all of us enjoy fucking or getting fucked or both really, we all try to run away from discussing roles.
The bottom would hate to admit they are bottoms. The tops (often a lie a lot hide behind) overrate their importance 2/3