@lanikaihi10@Lammyisback It’s so sad. Her reason and justification for blocking me, was because she couldn’t trust herself stay away from me and to not message me as she was afraid she’d feel tempted to try again at our relationship and rekindle something ): it was that push/pull dynamic coming out ):
@lanikaihi10@Lammyisback I already feel empty. The day I broke up with her because of her lies and deception? I felt empty. I saw her push/pull dynamic conflict in her before she blocked me, and after she did, part of me died.
@lanikaihi10@Lammyisback I’m thinking about breaking NC, but I’m unsure. I’m still under a lot of emotional pain after how I was lied to. It’s been two weeks for me so far. I now understand her disorganized attachment and potential BPD and why she behaved the way she did. But it’s not easy like you said
@lanikaihi10@Lammyisback Been a few weeks since no contact for me, god, I love my avoidant too and I miss her greatly. I can see the shame, pain, and trauma that she carries with her everywhere she goes. She self-sabotaged our relationship unfortunately.
@NickiASaint@Gabbrielxzn Holy shit, same thing happened to me. Caught my ex in a lie, I asked for honesty, the whole situation was deflected and put on me and I had to apologize for their behavior. I broke up with them because of it too. All because I asked for accountability.
@juliannarvivas Holy shit, I just went through this last night. My ex was deflecting onto me hard and I had pointed out her actions to her and how it affected me, which triggered her and got her even more upset and how she was deflecting onto me and putting everything on me
@Captain_Epic3@Ryan_Daigler Same thing with my ex, too. Anytime we’d have a conflict and we have to talk about it, she had a habit of trying to get me to be angry and mad and react to her anger, but I was always calm and loving and never gave her that reaction. Then she would feel bad for it
@_____USA___ @WallStreetMav@rachelvscott Wow, the disconnect is astonishing. You’re absolutely fucking retarded. You’re a waste of space and breathe on this Earth. You’re a bag of rotten walking flesh that can’t even form two brain cells and probably as soulless as an NPC. You’re fake.
@WallStreetMav@rachelvscott Wow, the disconnect is astonishing. You’re absolutely fucking retarded. You’re a waste of space and breathe on this Earth. You’re a bag of rotten walking flesh that can’t even form two brain cells and probably as soulless as an NPC. You’re fake.