reta !

create the life you want

[❀ @marsrled]

i’ve noticed people that are obSESSED w morality policing others tend to be the absolute worst judgemental people ever who have much shittier morals and characters than the people they try to control

[priscilla (alt) @seashell_luvr]

A double life is more common than people would like to think, especially now that the second life can exist entirely online.

Some sex addiction and betrayal trauma therapists use the metaphor of a “secret sexual basement”to describe a compartmentalized sexual life that is kept hidden from one’s primary relationship. It’s like building a secret basement under the house: the main floors represent the visible relationship where the home’s residents live, while underneath there’s a concealed space of secrets and activities, an entire reality that only one member of the family knows about.

In certain clinical models of compulsive or deceptive sexuality, the core harm of infidelity is not just the sexual act alone. The deeper injury is the sustained deception: hidden behaviors, compartmentalization, split erotic focus, the energy and passion and attention withheld from the relationship and invested elsewhere, the nagging feeling of something “missing” from the relationship, abuse of trust, the lies that protect the basement from being discovered, and the deprivation of true intimacy and connection.

From this perspective, the primary abuse is not just sexual betrayal, but the ongoing distortion of what was thought to be a shared reality built together. Their partner believes they are living in a whole house, when in fact there has been a hidden level all along.

[Judicaelle Irakoze @Judicaelle_]

As a woman you owe whatever freedom you have to the women before you and you owe the women after you a continuous of such freedom. Yes, you are your sister's keeper and your sister being every woman. No woman is really free unless we all are.

You must always ask yourself which role you are playing in advancing women’s rights.

[En(during COVID) @DEC0L0NIZE]

and let us not forget like this article irresponsibly has along with society at large that constant covid infections have done irreparable vascular damage+ to the collective during this mass disabling and eugenics event already spanning half a decade. sickness is a tool.

[shine ♀ @ladymysticalwmn]

At the end of the day everything can be explained by this image

[ELLɅ MɅCHINɅ @orchidcamp]

looks like footage of the ocean floor. What the fuck. impossible to fathom this level of destruction even after seeing it with my own eyes

[Ang. @AngThaDean]

One of the best things we could do for the collective feminine psyche is to stop engaging in casual critiques of each other’s bodies

[A. @notoriousaali]

I LOVE IT WHEN GIRLS ARE INTELLECTUALLY CURIOUS AND DIFFICULT TO SHAME. IKTR!!!!!!!!!!!

[𝙽𝚎𝚜𝚜𝚊 🌍♀️ @FourthWaver]

Hanging out with non-feminist female friends makes me wanna kms because why are we conflating someone's looks with someone's value as a person

[Adam @AdameMedia]

Hind rajab - 5 years old - 355 bullets

Never forget.

[NICKSY @_Nicksy]

Life is so unfair. Bless these angels 🥺

[Prem Thakker @prem_thakker]

This was twenty-one months ago. Israeli forces have killed more than 15,070 kids since.

[Dr. Omar Suleiman @omarsuleiman]

How many lives. How many childhoods. How many pregnancies. All the joy of having a child, all the pain of losing a child. All the trauma the survivors carry. All the guilt we bear. Humanity failed them all.

[Wasim @waasim_]

Look at when the tweet was made

[Onwenwaneyi @sia_tee]

I can’t believe we have to enact laws to stop men from marrying children.

[Prem Thakker @prem_thakker]

This was twenty months ago. Israeli forces have killed more than 14,186 kids since.

[Melodies & Masterpieces @SVG__Collection]

Sade