i don’t have a praise kink so much as i have a “confirmation that im not in trouble” kink and praise just happens to be direct confirmation that im not in trouble and nothing bad is going to happen
All this outrage towards gay men who appears feminine or are assumed to play a “feminine” role… there is misogyny everywhere for those with the eyes to see
it’s like, one day i feel hopeful, and the next in despair because there’s truly no place for me to fully embrace myself here. i thought of staying, of growing old here… but at the end, it would be a disservice to myself.
flirting is supposed to be plausibly deniable! that's the whole point!!! if the person you're flirting with ever finds out for sure you're flirting with them, you've lost
i get so sad going back to my empty place after a night with my friends, i'm very certain we're meant to fall asleep in a pile together like a litter of puppies