Someone told me:
"You could literally be fighting for your life, and some people will only notice how you're not showing up for them"
Let that sink in.
My toxic trait is I'll keep trying & trying & trying because I have a problem with quitting on people I care for until I quit, and when I quit I really quit & there's no fixing that because I turn cold.
1. HR is not there to protect you. They are there to protect the company.
2. Document EVERYTHING.
3. Food is not a reward for hard work.
4. Do the bare minimum, or you'll get rewarded MORE work.
5. Use them sick/vacation time.
6. Everyone is replaceable.
7. Keep them emails.
my grandfather mentioned a good point to me “people who can’t communicate think everything is an argument and people who lack accountability think everything is an attack” and i felt that shit on another level.
my therapist said this to me, and it hit me like a brick “if it drains you, it’s not for you. love, friendships, jobs, anything meant for you will nourish you, not exhaust you. 1/2