fear of communication is trauma based.
you either feel like your voice doesnโt matter, you think expressing how you feel is going to bring negative consequences, or youโre used to being silenced or invalidated
AND DON'T GET ME WRONG if Dabi responded saying he wanted Enji there then YEAH that's great. It just irks me he wasn't given a choice even on his death bed.
What got me about this was that he didn't ASK. It was, once again, Enji Todoroki doing whatever the hell he wanted. Imo, if he cared about forgiveness/respected his children in the slightest he would've asked dabi if he could come by and see him until the inevitable end.
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if i were on my death bed and my father said this i'd drop dead IMMEDIETLY i want nothing to do with you bro you're the reason im so fucked up๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ
Just like Natsu and Dabi have the right to tell Enji to go to hell.
Idk idk idk. It just rubbed me the wrong way that not only did dabi not get his revenge his abusive father got to worm his way back into his life on a whim.
Maybe I'm wrong for seeing it that way. But still.
one of my favorite things to do is typing out a tweet and then realizing "people don't need to know my opinion on this actually" and hitting delete instead of post. I think twitter would be better if more people did that