We are the Quaple: a closed polyamorous unit of four. We have been together for three years now and now we have a funny podcast about modern life and love!
Hey Lovelies, unfortunately we are discontinuing And They We’re Roommates for the foreseeable future. Read more about why and the new audio drama we are starting to on work here! https://t.co/6pnV8eN54G.
We love you! And we will still be on here being queer.
You say that it’s creepy that our phones listen to us? I say it’s helpful. I don’t even have to google stuff anymore I just say it out-loud and boop an ad! -it’s like my own personal and super nosey wizard.
Me and the SO were debating what the polyam version of "single and ready to mingle" would be.
We narrowed it down to
Available and Railable
Or
Polyam and ready to slam
Listening to the @ATWR_podcast brings inspiring conversation between people who not only Love one another but who clearly Really LIKE one another. Their dialogue & laughter calms, inspires, and encourages me to think that humanity might have a chance.
Polyam question: For those who did get married and wear rings.. How do your rings work? Two wedding bands on one finger? One on each hand?
#polyamory#polygamy#marriage
One of my favorite Polyam dynamics is partnering up with my meta to plan a special day for our partner... Like a birthday or even just a nice dinner after a hard week.
Polyamory is a lot of being showered with, and showering those most important to you with so much love. 🥰
Fuck! We haven't been posting! The covid vaccine took us by surprised and laid Fox out. Episode 7 will be live a week late, but we are still here, still queer, and doing the podcasting thing! We love you!
You can still be polyamorous even if you have one or no partners.
Just like a bisexual person is still bisexual no matter what gender they’re dating, your relationship status does not have to define your identity.
Hot take: a don’t-ask-don’t-tell polyamorous relationship CAN be healthy, as long as it is based on the desire for privacy and to focus only on your relationship when you’re together, rather than being rooted in avoidance, fear, or insecurity over the existence of other partners.
I don’t think it’s romantic to have someone’s overall emotional state and wellbeing be entirely dependent on their relationship with me, and that without me, they collapse. I find society’s romanticisation of dependence abhorrent. It makes me feel trapped and claustrophobic.
I find statements like “You give my life meaning” or “I can’t live without you” a massive turnoff and extremely uncomfortable. Society has normalised codependency and depending on others, particularly romantic partners, for happiness that really should be found within ourselves.
Just finished watching #Trigonometry on HBOMax. It was a beautifully done show about polyamory. The show illustrated a triad relationship. Usually shows on this topic are sensationalized or focus on sex. This was different and well acted!