turning 30 today
the biggest lesson from my twenties is to never mistake your current trajectory for your destination
no matter how fucked you think you are, a few years can rewrite everything
keep going
you need a dangerous amount of confidence to escape an ordinary life cos the person who becomes successful has to believe something that everyone else doubts.
ADHD people screenshotting and bookmarking everything because they re afraid of losing ideas, only to never look at them again because the archive is now its own overwhelming problem.
Ronaldo in juventus promised a ruthless defensive atletico madrid who just defeated them 2-0 that they shouldn’t celebrate yet because he will make sure he scores three to turn it around.
they played second leg and he scored hat-trick, i witnessed audacity and self belief live.
Sorry I do not reach out as often as I used to, I have been second guessing my career path,debating my life choices,and sleeping in any free time I get to escape the reality that is my life.
If you’re competing in the cheating game with a woman, you’ll lose.
It’s actually easier for a woman to out-cheat you because half the time, the men around her are the ones spending.
For many men, even a free pussy still comes with hotel, food, and bills.
If you are a young man, and making alot of money - the best way to use your resources to win hearts is NOT to give money away. Especially to females that will make requests on that money (if you are unmarried)
...it is more effective to invite them to experience the money through your frame.
So rather than give them N1M, the best use of that resource is to organize an entire experience for YOURSELF, and then invite her to experience it with you.
This way she attributes how she felt within that experience TO YOU, and not to the resources/money.
Sending the money will have her wanting your money more than she wants you.