I'm sorry for your predicament. But let me share something that may relevant in this kind of cases.
As you said, it's your engagement, which means the decision to marry is between you and the girl.
It was called off by unnamed persons. Which we're expected to believe is the lady's side of the family.
But here is the thing. Wedding arrangements are hardly called off unilaterally without the tacit or direct approval of the person who is getting married.
The lady may tell you she has tried to resist their attempt to call it off, but there is every likelihood, she is okay with it being called off.
This is applicable to both genders.
If any man wants to marry you and you hear him telling you that he has been pressured not to. Just know that the guy is trying to also hide behind that excuse to cut off the relationship.
This is what I strongly believe.
When two people are determined to get married, no matter the resistance against them, they prevail.
Yes. There is the issue of Qadr. That is an entirely different issue.
I'm simply talking about personal efforts and commitment put by persons to see that they resist these kind of intrusions into their personal life at the point of getting married.
May Allah continue to guide us right.
Ku yi haƙuri.
Nifa a fahimta na, ba lallai sai abinda mutane suke so yayi mana dai-dai ba shine ya zama dai-dai.
Mutanen Kano duk lokacin Zaɓe sai an ce masu za ayi wannan auren, kuma a haka suke dangwala masu yin wannan auren kuri'a.
Duk da ba lallai bane mu fahimci dalilin nasu ba. A maganar gaskiya ma su ba su bin mu bashin bayani ko dalili. To, ai kin ga kuwa bamu da ta cewa kenan.
Idan za a kwana ana ihu akan wannan abun babu abin da zai canza.
Kuɗin nan dai na al'umma ne. Kuma mafiya yawa daga cikin al'umma sun yi amanna da a kashe kuɗin don yin wa mutane aure. Ina laifi a cikin hakan?
Da ma dai a ce mutanen ba su so ne, ko ana yin masu auren dole, da sai mu samu damar tattaunawa. Amma a halin yanzu, babu wani abun tattaunawa illa a ba gwamnati shawarar hanyoyin da za ta bi wajen inganta wannan tsarin.
Shine kawai.
Maganar kuma ɗiban kudin al'umma a biya wa mutane Hajji, shi ma wanna ban ga laifi a cikin sa ba.
Wanna ita ce fahimta ta. Kuma har cikin zuciya na nake wannan maganar.
Ba zan faɗi abun da ya sha babban da abinda yake zuciya na ba don a so ni, ko a yabe ni ba.
Na yi imani ko a gaban Allah na tsaya, ya san abinda yake cikin zuciya na.
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