In just one week:
A man was arrested for harassing a girl on the street for rejecting him in Abuja.
A 20 year old girl took her life because she was grapped by a content creator.
A male lecturer got involved In inappropriate conduct with a female student.
There is another chaos because of a guy who keeps creating silly contents with an underage girl.
A student's husband flogged a lecturer because he was trying to sleep with his wife to give her good grades.
These are just the ones we've heard of, now imagine the ones we don't know about.
I wish the men committing these crimes would do better. It's heartbreaking to wake up almost every day to news of another woman becoming a victim. For many women, simply existing comes with a constant sense of fear.
There are countless videos teaching men how not to spend money on women or how not to "simp," but where are the conversations teaching that NO means NO? Where are the lessons that rejection is not humiliation, and that self control and respect are essential parts of being a responsible male adult?
Parents also have a role to play by raising boys to respect boundaries, consent, and women. Society is quick to police women's morality, yet often fails to address the attitudes and behaviors that lead to these crimes, (the men involved)
It's painful to watch, and I hope the men who choose these actions become better human beings, for the sake of everyone in our society. And If they don't want to be better, then I hope they face the consequences of their actions.
Na where I dey since morning o..
My elder brother's wife was due to give birth and he's not in town at the moment, I had to go stand in for him..
Omo I don tire..
We thank God sha.
It is an eternal red flag for me if money is your obsession, if money is the only thing that makes you happy, if money is more important than your relationship with people.
People like this will . sell you out and throw you under the bus for money.
It is unfortunate that it is only money that gives some people happiness. How do you place the source of your entire happiness on your bank account?
It is a sad way to live.
Only educated people can express themselves like this,you can be intelligent and creative at the same time. The only problem is today's creative market is rewarming madness over creativity.
Ycee no lie, but you can't blame people's situations on them sometimes, look at where they're coming from and pray for them to be better.
Ofcourse but when there’s no money to stock up, follow trends, and meet customer demand, how do you expect to stay consistent and remain relevant while thousands of others are competing in the same business?
Let me be very real with you and break this down psychologically.
You can be on a yatch in 3 ways
1) You buy the yacht (Billionaire status)
2) You rent the yacht (Millionaire status)
3) By associating and knowing the people that are on the yacht
Chefs, Bartenders, Mechanics, etc... Are all on these yachts enjoying the prestige and luxury, just because they are associates of the people on the yatch.
The chefs might not be billionaires. The bartenders might be on a 4,000 USD per month salary... But they are on that yatch, laughing and joining in on discussions and music... With the elites present there
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Realistically, the easiest way to access luxury is to associate with the owners.
In Nigeria, a man called "Ola of Lagos" did this. He started with car spotting in Lagos. And that gradually built his association with the wealthy elites of Nigeria.
Then he started doing private luxury car reviews in these elites homes.
Today, he flies on Private Jets, goes on yachtes, travels the world together with these elites.
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SuperCar Blondie also did this too and it gave her access
The school of Hard knocks is also a good example of this. He interviews the elites and that gave him association gradually.
And this guy that asks luxury car owners "what do you do for a living"
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My point is that, the rich/elite loveeeee exclusivity.
They want to feel particular and singled out.
You have to brand yourself in a way that offers them this exclusivity. And they will gradually associate with you.
For instance..
These yatch owners will rather hire a person that says "I am a chef and I have worked on 4 yatches and 2 cruise ships"
Than the person that says "I am a chef and I have 20 years of experience and 50 intercontinental recipe knowledge"
Both chefs are experienced, but one brands himself as more exclusive for that particular experience. And he will get the hire eventually.
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So if you know you don't have inheritance in Billions. And you don't have that head start to investing 30 million USD in stocks at age 18...
The most effective privilege you have is information and access (which social media has made soooo easy already)
Brand yourself exclusively and super niche down.
Do this and you will build the associations that will eventually get you on luxuries like these yachtes without even having a bank balance of 5k USD
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Many of these elites have places they hang out in.
To get into those places will cost a lot, but it will worth it.
An Instagram photographer guy went to Beverly Hills where a lot of Hollywood celebrities hang out at. And he started taking random photos of them and call to show them afterwards.
He took of Dembele the footballer. He took The Rock
Tom Cruise
Jamie Foxx
Etc...
And some of them collected his Instagram handle and commented when they saw the guy post their photos.
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That's exactlyyyyy what I'm taking about.
Go where they are and offer exclusive value.
If you know you have a lot of value to offer, than rebrand yourself so wellll.
And remember, hardly will they look for you. And it would even be worse if you don't make yourself visible enough.
So put yourself out there. Brand yourself well. And just enjoy new experiences and meeting people.
This is how association is built overtime
This is how to be on a yacht without ever owning one.
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✍️ Vincent the Therapist
Keep demanding the release of these children. Don’t be tired
Put their faces everywhere. Make it impossible for those in power to keep ignoring the nightmare these children are living through.
46 children being flogged every single day.
No one deserves to grow up like this.
We’re called students of English not English students. English students are of England origins while the other are learners of the language.
Difference btw lie and lay can be seen in how APC lie all the time and Nigerians lay all their hopes on PO to save us in 2027.
If your mentality on a good or bad marriage is solely based on what you see online, that's on you.
With your sense of judgement, maybe you should just stay single
That’s the problem: caring more about marriage than resolving issues hindering a successful marriage.
A woman just left an unhappy marriage, and upon discovering she’s having an affair with an unmarried man, you people are now asking why she’s not married to him.
You are not reflecting on the issues she raised.
Issues like keeping malice, neglect, disrespect, adultery, gambling, or financial mismanagement are all deeply concerning in marriage that no man or woman should experience or carry into a new marriage.
What you are more concerned about is, “who will marry her?” “Let her marry her lover, na.” “So he won’t marry her?”
“Marry, marry, marry,” Na craze?