i hate watching women regress into bores. the girls are becoming boring. they’re conservative, puritanical and promoting traditionalist values that exist purely to favour men. oh my god! my shaylas 💔💔
getting your shit together requires a level of honesty you can't even imagine. there's nothing easy about realizing you're the one that's been holding you back this whole time.
This year has taught me that a good year can also be a hard year. I've held joy and pain in equal measure. The joy hasn't made it less painful and the pain hasn't made it less joyful. it’s the year I learnt what it means to hold all things in a delicate balance.
Whatever you do, pray for the ability to see your own sins, your own hypocrisy, and your own shortcomings. Never lose sight of that — never get so carried away pointing fingers that you forget you, too, have abscesses that need tending.
being in a healthy relationship really taught me there's no such thing as 'that's just the way i am'. when you truly love someone you work on those toxic traits, you learn to communicate, you actively listen to each others thoughts & feelings – you adjust, grow & heal together.
Crazy how peaceful your life becomes when you stop fixing things you didn't break, stop maintaining one-sided draining relationships, stop moving mountains for people who won't lift a finger for you, and stop showing up for people who disappear when you need them.