Bir kadın doğru adamla evlendiğinde neşeli ve kaygısız bir kız çocuğuna dönüşür, yanlış adamla evlendiğinde ise her şeye koşturan yorgun ve sinirli bir kadın olur...
Yükünü alan,yardımcı olan ve seven bir adamın yanında o masum, cıvıl cıvıl halinle kalırsın,diğerinde ise koca bir adamın arkasını toplarken tükenirsin.
Re the video of surprising your friends you are married, is it that I no sabi do friendship?
Because i honestly don’t mind oesp if it doesn’t pertain to me.
Like I’m pro keep your life private if you need to, that was also my upbringing 😩
Do I need intervention??😭
You must not comment on everything. This is actually a light conversation with her family (congregation). A pastor can demand that a 🎤 be changed for whatever reasons best known to him or her. Stop acting like you're more spiritual and serious than her.
girls.... pleaseeeee pick the gentle one. the kind one. the one who brings you peace. the protective one. the one who is sure of you. the one who respects you. the one who understands your silence.
Was in Atlanta with hubby and he was driving through some neighborhood. Anyhoo I’ve come to realize there’s money and then there’s MONEY 😭
Started looking up the houses in that area and saw millions of dollars. So yep I need to shift my goalpost because WHAT???
Once you birth a child/ren with Oku aiye
Please don't fool yourself by being lazy, accept your reality.
Work as hard and as smart
Pray to God like a lunatic for Help and favour
In the process, Have a budget for serious supplements/skin care and anti ageing.
Always check your Blood pressure at regular intervals. Be brutal about self care
Never be sentimental in protecting your mental health from those that will gaslight you with nonsense talk.
A responsible Man should never abandon His children welfare no matter what , once He does accept He is Oku Aiye and accept your Cross. But never be emotional or sentimental about it.
Work on your emotional and mental Health, you need it. Don't be bitter but be brutally clear about looking out for your interest.
Life is never going to be fair for some. You need to create your fairness in it. It is what it is . With God you will always excel irrespective, trust your capacity and ability to do so.
Will you work harder than some ? Absolutely yes! Will your children be less successful , 100% not , Concentrate on ensuring you are raising Balanced kids, not perfect one. May the Lord support you all the way 🤲🤲🤲
Learn or perish
When God makes your blessings easier and quicker for you, there’s the temptation to think that others who are struggling aren’t doing enough, or you’re just better. Resist the temptation
@ptreatshaven I agree! I hardly add fresh tomatoes!
I obviously blend my peppers with some onions. Cook with stock not water nd I season with only knorr cubes if stock not seasoned enough.
Sometimes I add can coconut milk 🤤
Hubby n I went to a beautiful Yoruba wedding party yesterday. I wore iro and buba + ipele, the whole shenanigans. He wore agbada, 3 crystal beads, even had a stick sef. IYK him, he’ll probably not do those 😂 but he did
I think we both looked GOOD.
Guess what? NO PHOTOS TAKEN 😭
"I thank God Almighty for what has happened here today, it is a victory for democracy...I expect Oyebamiji, as a civilised person, to call and congratulate me..."
Governor Ademola Adeleke says he will reward Osun residents for their loyalty by transforming the state from a civil service state into an industrial state.
#OsunDecides2026
I don’t understand why I’ll call Loveth once and she won’t pick my call immediately regardless of her working or not. Na wa
@adeyinka_love return my missed call IJN
@CP_Ogamba Oooou is it coming back??
Was telling my niece recently this is something I didn’t ditch and I didn’t get the hate. In fact bonnets don’t always stay worn over night and I sweat a lot more with it.
I’m the AIT and NTA in my home because the man I married doesn’t go on SM unless I put a knife to his neck 😭😭. On brk getting all the tea and prepping for today’s afterwork gist because what in the Psquare is going on?!
Please, can Anita Okoye collect the mic after Peter? 🤲🏽
You want to stay home, bake sourdough and have 9 kids? Wonderful!
But if another woman wants to go to med school and become the ob-gyn who helps you deliver those 9 kids, you don't get to guilt or shame her for HER CHOICE.
Today was a reminder that words matter. Sometimes people are so focused on proving a point that they forget there’s a human being on the receiving end. I leave it with God. The God I serve neither sleeps nor slumbers.