The richest and probably most busiest man in the world spends half an hour every day at least with his kids to show them the importance of family life.
But a 9-5 Nigerian man who works under the sea though…..
Anything out of simple gifts should be ruled out particularly when she hasn't even said yes. That's how a brother payed mahr to an online sister who subsequently disappeared 🤣
A question I was asked over the weekend:
A man sponsored a lady throughout her university years with the understanding that she would marry him after graduation. However, once she graduated, she turned him down, saying her parents objected to his background.
Dignify yourself. If he still feels he wants to gift you after you've categorically told him No, then collect and enjoy it.
2. Bro, don't waste your money convincing any woman, if she no do , another one go do.
The supplication of the one who has been wronged is rarely rejected.
Advice :
1. There's no point taking a man on a ride , billing him and collecting gifts if you know you're not interested.
JUST SO YOU KNOW
Bola leaves heartbreaking note before she unalive herself in Lagos with SNIPER.
A heartbreaking incident has thrown the Ogba area of Lagos into mourning after a young woman identified as Bola reportedly took her own life, leaving behind a handwritten note that revealed the depth of her emotional pain.
According to reports, Bola was a staff member of Wado Credit & Co in Ogba. She was said to have been battling intense personal and financial pressures in recent times. Those who knew her described her as hardworking and reserved, making the news of her death even more shocking to colleagues and neighbours.
What has made the tragedy even more devastating is the handwritten note she left behind a deeply emotional message that painted a picture of someone overwhelmed by despair and hopelessness.
In the note, she wrote:
“Nothing is working in my life.
✔️My figures are low.
✔️My brain is clogged up.
✔️The economy is getting harder.
✔️My decisions are wrong.
✔️My mind is messed up.
✔️The future doesn’t seem bright at all. I see extreme hardship.
✔️I can’t bear the pain anymore.
✔️I’m sorry Dad, I’m sorry Olúwafẹ́mi, Adédayọ̀, Oluwaseun, Tolúwalase, Oluwatosin, Ifeoluwa.
✔️Dear Lord, have mercy on me.”
The handwritten message suggests she was struggling with feelings of failure, mental exhaustion, and fear about the future. It has since sparked conversations about depression, economic hardship, workplace pressure, and the silent battles many people fight daily.
👉Mental health advocates continue to emphasize the importance of speaking up and seeking help during moments of emotional distress. No situation is beyond hope, and support whether from family, friends, religious leaders, or professionals can make a difference.
If you or anyone around you is experiencing overwhelming emotional pain or thoughts of self-harm, please seek immediate help from a trusted person or a qualified mental health professional. You are not alone, and there are people who care deeply about you.
@Unbreakable354@Crowns0071@IdrisAOni1 I read his write up, it full of unbalancing statements.
How can we criticize someone that believe is more knowledgeable that anybody. Infact am disappointed in Dr Idris oni
@Aware000@IdrisAOni1 I wonder oooo, baba olodo that has being causing alot of atrocities in Islam.
Ramadan is coming now it going to be another wahala and this dogmatism follow we be shout l'agege.
It a same for a learned to write a write up like this.
May Almighty Allah protect us