Adrian

[Adrian @Adrian4gi7]

Things my Domme said. This she posted on X after I had a meltdown and terminated the dynamic after being effectively robbed by her in a dungeon. I was tied up and she used my phone to help herself to 10k. So under her spell was I that I relapsed not long after. More fool me.

[Adrian @Adrian4gi7]

@mrotskcud @ValereisRoom @thyrikenaz Yeah. I was tied up and had 20k taken by her. I say I didn't consent. She says I implicitly did by the way I talked to her about how I find findom hot. It felt wrong I can't lie. Unethical bordering criminal that situation from my pov. But she thought it was fair game.

[Adrian @Adrian4gi7]

Things my Domme said

[Adrian @Adrian4gi7]

@NoahfSanchezz I really believe this is how she sees the world. The pov of a narcissist.

[Adrian @Adrian4gi7]

@mrotskcud @ValereisRoom @thyrikenaz There's definitely exploitation here. I've heard so many stories. It's been really eye opening and some of the manipulation really is mind-blowing in how effective it was in having me questioning myself and what is right and wrong. It ranges from unethical to criminal in cases.

[Adrian @Adrian4gi7]

@ValereisRoom @mrotskcud @thyrikenaz I think there's something very extreme about findom though. I've heard from subs who have put their financial security and real world relationships on the line because of it. And ok they're participating but theres really a lot of mental health issues at the root of the need.

[Adrian @Adrian4gi7]

@bigbittiesandfn There's no right or wrong really right. Just different perspectives.

[Adrian @Adrian4gi7]

@usedsoap2 Yeah. I'm not going to share. Despite everything that's happened it's not right to share.

[Adrian @Adrian4gi7]

@I_AM_MirahBella Well said. In one of the other replies I add more context.

[Adrian @Adrian4gi7]

@thecitydivaa Not expecting sympathy or anything. I deserved what I got.

[Adrian @Adrian4gi7]

@all4mariahh Yeah. Not asking for sympathy or anything. Just been a thing I've been through and thought I'd share. Feels kind of cathartic. But yeah I deserved everything I got really.

[Adrian @Adrian4gi7]

@JunePrinsesje Ive just replied to one of the other responses here with more context

[Adrian @Adrian4gi7]

@UrNovahart There's an ultimatum from her that expires at midnight tonight involving me paying for a session where she basically wants to interrogate me on hard questions she has that she wants answered. I can't go along with it and the dynamic is likely to end at that point. I'm prepared

[Adrian @Adrian4gi7]

@Floresmalls Got to admit beautiful, powerful women talking about "draining" guys so coldly like that does something to me. Is it my masochism? I don't know. But it's so hot and what got me into all this trouble in the first place.

[Adrian @Adrian4gi7]

As a domme, if a whale who is open about his ongoing mental health issues flops onto your lap, what do you do?

[Adrian @Adrian4gi7]

@thyrikenaz And the exchange shown on this post is her reaction to my relapse. Never acknowledged that what happened with the findom stuff was wrong. In fact I was painted out to be the bad guy there

[Adrian @Adrian4gi7]

@thyrikenaz In 2 sessions I was tied up and had my phone unlocked and she took a large sum of money. The second time I freaked out and terminated the dynamic. There was a lot of very direct messaging then about it. But in a moment of weakness I relapsed and begged to come back

[Adrian @Adrian4gi7]

@PrincessMaddy86 Nope. But ok she always kind of made it clear she's hard to please and an elite manipulator. Now that I'm more clear minded about everything though I see how toxic this really was. But when I was in the middle of all this I was so caught up and lost in it. It was intense.

[Adrian @Adrian4gi7]

@TopTierTessaa Use it as the foundation of building a prolonged dynamic. The dynamic I was in didn't get there in the end ultimately. It was months rather than the years it could have been if She was willing.

[Adrian @Adrian4gi7]

I think I find it strangle addictive trying to see if I can get a narcissistic domme to show some kind of empathy for me. Real world experiments result in a pretty decisive no.

[Adrian @Adrian4gi7]

@MajorMajor86818 But yeah I appreciate it's a balance to not be overbearing and this topic did get shutdown quite a bit over time. I do need to reflect on how I handled that side of things.

[Adrian @Adrian4gi7]

@MajorMajor86818 Yeah I understand that. There was a phase at the start of the dynamic where this stuff was openly shared and accommodated and I really appreciated her engaging on it and she seemed willing.