@PrincessChloe66 You're not alone. I understand this soul deep. If you ever need to talk to someone who is struggling with their body on a minute-by-minute basis, I'm here. 😘
So true. I think that should be the first clue for subs, especially new ones. If there is no direct communication with a potential Domme, really think about whether that is what they're looking for. It's their responsibility to know what they are looking for and find a Domme who will fulfill their specific needs.
Are there any subs out there who are looking for a journey? Or is it just a quick dopamine rush?
I'm sure there are some of you who itch to be unwound and then rewound into a totally different reality. One that you're completely owned and have no money left.
#findom#release #obsession
@Dominant_Need I get it 😁 When I was still in America, I dedicated an entire kitchen cabinet to mugs. Different moods call for different mugs.
Unfortunately, where I live now it is WAY too hot for mugs. I started a Stanley cup collection for all my iced coffee. 🙄
Very true. New to online but in real life most of My subs were extremely high functioning in both their life and their careers.
Sometimes a man that has a ton of pressure on him looks for an escape where he doesn't have to be in charge of anything. he can relax into sub space and just rest his mind by doing everything he's told to do by Me. It's amazing to watch them shrink down into nothing.
Some of the replies I see here, show exactly what you're talking about. I'm new to the online world but been immersed in the BDSM world since I was legally able. I'm as shocked as you are with what I see on here and what some "Dommes" think submission is. Keep your head up. Look around and find a Domme that speaks your language. I'm in the same boat you are just as a Domme.
Some advice to you and others, yes, this is a kink, but at the end of each interaction, there are two real life people. That should be a consideration in everything you do. If not, you're really not part of the scene, you're a user and an abuser. That is scoffed at in real life and avoided at all costs. Do better.
So true!! Say it louder for those in the back (lurkers) Being a submissive, in any area of BDSM, actually requires action. It's not about being told you're a piece of sh*t and getting off on that. The life of a sub is a life of service. If you want a Domme to interact with you, prove it through action. Being obsessed with a Domme is cute, being treated in the way your soul craves is a whole different thing.
The word “finsub” has become way too comfortable in people’s mouths. Because being attracted to a Domme is not financial submission. Watching her page is not financial submission. Writing paragraphs about how badly you want to serve is not financial submission. Calling her “Goddess” while never contributing a dollar is definitely not financial submission. FINDOM is not about what you say you would do. It’s about what you actually sacrifice, prioritize, and give. Anybody can type “I’m a finsub.” The send is where the fantasy ends and the truth begins. Some of you don’t want to submit financially. You just want free access to women you’re obsessed with. Those are two VERY different things ❗️💸
End of another day. While I'm dreaming of a whale sub, why don't you basic subs tell me your triggers. Triggers as in what tickles your mini dangly bit. Should be an interesting read over coffee tomorrow morning 😄
Goodnight wallets and Goddesses 😘
@brattybrisa So true. No limits is a HUGE red flag. I'd much rather a sub tell me they don't know. That we can work with. "No limits" is not safe for either person, sub or Domme.
If they can't verbalize their needs, I stay far away.