I remember when my middle son wanted to come with me to Muay Thai and Jui Jitsu class. I thought originally he was showing interest until one day I asked him why he was curious? He told me he was getting bullied at school and wanted to defend himself. I was ecstatic. He to it quickly. I sat him down a few weeks later and told him under no circumstances will he start fights. But he certainly could finish one. If anyone steps into his bubble, he has every right to defend himself and he wouldn’t get in trouble with his mom and I. Sure enough, the next week I got a phone call from the school. He was being suspended for fighting.
I got to the school and my son told me he was pushed into his locker by his bully. He turned around and pieced him the fuck up. Apparently, that’s a no no. I asked to see the video footage, sure enough, my son was minding his own business when unprovoked, the bully two hands to the back shoved him hard into the locker. I asked what about the bully? His he getting a suspension? Nope. I lost it. I reminded these school folks that they were young once and know exactly what it’s like to be bullied and having to defend themselves. It’s how we were brought up. It added character because the lesson learned is that when you stand down to bully, they keep on coming until something drastic happens. But once you let a bully know that you’re going to fight back? The fact that the bully is going unpunished for unprovoked behavior, but my son is getting suspended for defending himself? Yeah, that’s not happening. I have zero problem taking it to the superintendent as well as hiring a lawyer in order to get justice. I certainly took it to the superintendent 4 weeks later after my son was suspended and my lawyer came with. He did all the talking, and my son’s record was cleared and the bully was suspended for the rest of the year. He had to repeat the 7th grade because of it. As parents, you must have your kids back. Especially when you’re right
I often wonder, what is the game plan.
1. We don't want Anwar/DAP/PKR cos of reformati. We don't want second choice establishment candidates like Zafrul.
2. We don't want PN cos of stupidity and extremism.
3. Rafizi doesn't have a strong party
So, then what for GE16?
“Ingat Tak Virus Nipah? Virus Yang Rosakkan Otak Disebabkan Babi?”
Bila Sultan Selangor, Sultan Sharafuddin Idris Shah cadangkan wakil rakyat cuba sendiri tinggal bersebelahan kawasan penternakan babi, ramai yang sokong sindiran pedas baginda.
The advice should be, tak payah compare diri sendiri dgn org lain. No amount of travelling, experiencing etc will ever be enough if you keep comparing yourself to others. There’s always gonna be people living a more fabulous life than you.
Beberapa tahun lepas aku dipanggil anti Islam bila persoal kenapa lelaki yang culas nafkah boleh terlepas kahwin baru.
Yang tak anti Islam tu mana suaranya? Lama dah sistem syariah menindas perempuan.
Bila pihak yang menuntut buat macam ni, pakat lah kata bukan cara yang betul
@markonahajis Aku pun pernah kena. Hanya sbb persoalkan mahkamah syariah lemah dlm menegakkan hak wanita. Kita ni bukan anti hukum-hakam, tapi anti-manusia lemah yang gagal menegakkan hukum Tuhan. Sampai tahap menindas wanita. Itu zalim namanya.
Kalau minat sesiapa kat social media ni, check la dulu profile dia.
Kalau suka membawang, mengumpat, kutuk orang sana sini, tak payah la dm orang gitu.
Nanti habis dia canang kat semua. Orang gini bukan takat tak patut dijadikan pasangan, nak jadikan kawan pun kena fikir 100x.