Afrian Hardiansyah

Just an old soul

[Whizz @CFCWhizzHQQ]

🚨 For Cristiano Ronaldo to equal Messi's achievements, He needs:

• 1 World Cup
• 3 Ballon D'or Award
• 2 French League titles and
• 1 Human Hormone.

🚨 But For Lionel Messi to equal Ronaldo's achievements, He needs:

• 3 Premier League titles
• 2 Champions League titles
• 1 Puskas Award
• 2 FA Cup
• 2 English Super Cup
• 2 Italian League titles
• 2 Italian Cup
• 1 Club World Cup
• 6 Globe Soccer Award
• 1 UCL All Time scorer Award
• 1 Diamond YouTube play button.
• 1 Saudi Pro League title

Any disrespect to Cristiano Ronaldo from all Messi fans will not be tolerated anymore... 🤔

[Afrian Hardiansyah @AfrianHr]

@0tk0il @elfardeyhaq Kta chatgpt gini mangots

[Afrian Hardiansyah @AfrianHr]

@miftahrizaq_ Berkah selalu mas Miftah

[Afrian Hardiansyah @AfrianHr]

@0tk0il Setuju mang ots, selama hayat masih di kandung badan, kemungkinan selalu ada.

[ØTöNGKØiL @0tk0il]

yang bisa screenshit kaos merah kukirim kaosnya

votonya liat disini :
https://t.co/Vh7tsfZVQu

[ØTöNGKØiL @0tk0il]

yang bisa screenshit kaos merah kukirim kaosnya

votonya liat disini :
https://t.co/Vh7tsfZVQu

[Afrian Hardiansyah @AfrianHr]

@0tk0il Iphone 12 pro max ibarat wulan guritno, pernah jadi primadona pada masanya.

Android baru 4 jutaan, ibarat selebgram kabupaten yang followernya tidak seberapa, profilenya content kreator, DM jika ingin kerjasama, usernamenya pake kata real.

[Afrian Hardiansyah @AfrianHr]

@dashcamindo Lane hogger, klo pelan di kiri mas.
Basic berkendara itu.

[Afrian Hardiansyah @AfrianHr]

@mkbijaksana Nyangkut shiba di hotbit gegara ga di pantau tau2 tutup

[Afrian Hardiansyah @AfrianHr]

@didepancangkir Cewe2 indo ke lelaki yang masih ada usaha

[dunia kegelisahan @IndonesiaFedera]

SUDUT PANDANG EMOSI PRIA YANG JARANG DI UNGKAP

1. pria nempel sama wanita yang bikin dia tenang, bukan yang paling cantik

2. Dia bakal care kalo lu bikin dia ngerasa dihargai, bukan diuji tiap hari

3. Pria makin loyal kalo hidupnya jadi lebih ringan sejak Lo hadir

4. Dia cuma lembut ke satu orang yang dianggap aman

5. Pria lebih buktiin rasa dari pada ngomong manis

6. Dia gak akan bisa marah lama sama orang yang dia sayang

7. Kalo dia tetap hadir meski sibuk, itu udah bentuk cinta yang paling jujur

Silahkan jika ada salah mohon dikoreksi atau ada yang kurang silahkan ditambahkan

[Re @dukeofsemarang]

Baca komen di MV Sal Priadi
“Untuk seluruh anak,
jika bapakmu gak judi online, gak merokok, gak gila perempuan, gak malas, tapi masih kurang waktu dan uang, percayalah dia sebenarnya sudah berjuang. Hanya nasib dan takdirnya saja yang belum seberuntung itu untuk membahagiakanmu sebagai anaknya dengan uang dan waktu.” 🥹

[Chandana 🌻✨ @RoseOnX9]

https://t.co/JUAZjjGHDX

[Griffin @griffinarks]

warnai rambutmu, jika kamu merasa lebih baik dengan semua itu.

ambil segelas kopi pahit, jika lambungmu masih kuat.

pergi jalan-jalan sendirian dan menangis di kendaraan, jika itu membuat melegakan.

memaki di tempat sepi, tumpahkan air mata di kamar mandi, jika itu membuatmu merasa punya harapan lagi.

dengar lagu yang kamu suka, bayar waktu yang kamu bisa, hidup yang sekali ini rayakan dengan hal-hal kecil yang kamu miliki.

[Maria Stela Clarisa Nau @mariastelacn]

Kalo dari pengalaman pribadi.. ini relate banget.

Kebanyakan orang tua mikir gini. Laki-laki diberikan pressure untuk provide, bukan untuk sama2 bekerja keras supaya bisa hidup berkolaborasi sama pasangannya.

Akhirnya saat dewasa mereka cuma dihadapkan pada dua dikotomi:

1. Laki-laki gajinya harus lebih besar dari istri supaya bisa provide. Dalam arti lain, value kamu terletak dari seberapa besar kamu bisa menafkahi istri kamu.

2. Laki-laki bergantung sama istri aka (mokondo). Dalam arti lain, istrimu udah SALAH PILIH.

Jarang sekali ada narasi merangkul yg bisa mengamini bahwa 'GPP LOH RUMAH TANGGA ITU SHARING RESPONSIBILITIES . DAN GA HARUS TIAP SAAT 50/50.'

Disclaimer : Tidak bermaksud menggeneralisasi karena yakin setiap keluarga punya trauma generasi di dalam keluarga, proteksi ekonomi hingga kepercayaan budaya akan peran perempuan.

[The Curious Tales @thecurioustales]

Imagine your life as a stovetop.

You’ve got 4 burners:

1. Family
2. Work
3. Health
4. Friends

But in reality:

To be successful… You have to turn off one.
To be *really* successful… You must turn off two.

[Slim @onu_slim]

How To Restart your life at 45

At 45, restarting feels heavier, because you are not just rebuilding income, you are rebuilding identity, reputation, confidence, and sometimes family structure. But hear this clearly, 45 is not too late, it only becomes too late when you refuse to move.

Accept your reality without drama, sit down alone, and audit your life honestly. What skills do you have that can produce income today, what debts are hanging over you, what lifestyle is silently draining you. Remove emotions from the table, deal with facts. At this stage, clarity is more powerful than motivation.

Stabilize your finances before chasing big dreams. Cut unnecessary expenses immediately, if you need to downsize your apartment, your car, or your social lifestyle, do it without shame. Pride will destroy you faster than poverty, and your focus now should be survival first, then stability, then growth. Build a small emergency cushion, even if it takes time, because restarting without financial discipline is like building on sand.

Upgrade or reposition your skills, because the world does not pay for age, it pays for value. Ask yourself what you can learn within 6 to 12 months that the market will reward. It could be tech, project management, digital marketing, operations, consulting in your previous field, or a specialized trade. You do not need to compete with younger people on energy, compete with them on experience combined with new knowledge.

Leverage your network differently. At 45, relationships are assets, old colleagues, former clients, church members, industry contacts. Reach out with humility and clarity, not to beg, but to position yourself. Many opportunities at this level will come through conversations, not job portals.

Protect your mental health fiercely. Restarting at 45 can feel embarrassing, especially when your peers appear settled. Ignore comparison, some people peak early and plateau, some bloom late and dominate. Your timeline is your own, focus on consistent daily action.

Start small, but think long term. Do not chase quick money because you feel behind, desperation will cost you more than delay. Build something steady, even if it begins as freelancing, consulting, a small service business, or learning a new industry from scratch. Consistency will beat intensity at this age.

Forgive yourself for past mistakes, bad investments, failed businesses, broken relationships, missed opportunities. If you do not forgive yourself, you will carry regret into your next chapter and sabotage it.

Restarting at 45 is not about proving anything to anyone, it is about refusing to give up on yourself. You still have strength, you still have wisdom, you still have time.

Move quietly, stay disciplined, rebuild intentionally.

My friend just said “45 is not the end,it can be the beginning of your most stable and powerful decade”.

So I have added it here

[Afrian Hardiansyah @AfrianHr]

@0tk0il Pak @jokowi coba nih dengerin mang ots

[Afrian Hardiansyah @AfrianHr]

@fortisfortuna_9 @meidisyah_putra @SoundOfYogi @KejaksaanRI Pake undang2 dasar aja klo gitu

[Afrian Hardiansyah @AfrianHr]

@NasbiHasan Bagaimana dengan pelanggaran HAM?
Kalau dibandingkan dengan pahlawan yang lain juga melanggar HAM, saya lebih setuju gelar pahlawan tersebut yang dicabut.