@Kbksg_dn273 Lmao, total nonstarter; how could I advocate for a marriage that isn't even a marriage? If it's not between a man and woman it's not marriage. Two men can't have children
@Kbksg_dn273 Aristotle also lived in a (very brief, evolutionarily speaking) time when men would be sent off to war and it could take months and often years for them to return, it makes sense he would say they should marry *after* their prime fighting years
@Kbksg_dn273 You point to biology but are just speaking in generalities; the facts are what they are, marriage with an age difference of just a few years is the most common. Gay marriage isn't even marriage, and almost none of them are actually monogamous
if you say that society should help young men find work and get married, boomers & feminists will crawl out of the woodwork to tell you they don't "owe" you anything, but this is like telling your car you don't "owe" it gasoline because you're spending the money on slots & cigs.
@Kbksg_dn273 Divorce rates go up as the age difference rises, dead bedrooms practically unheard of until the 70's, and all of this coincides with 2nd wave feminism, the pill, women going to college, no fault divorce, etc
The only "better" when finding a wife is sooner. Discernment and where matters, but at this point churchgoing doesn't make a difference for quality, unless you *already* go to a more exclusive church.
Very hard sell to tell men to become, idk, a Mennonite to find a wife.