“It takes 2 to tango” - Wrong!!
Dark personalities (narcissists/psychopaths), engage in unwarranted covert campaigns to; destroy people who expose their dark side, because they enjoy damaging others, because they are vengeful towards those who may do something appropriate but which they do not like.
Dark personalities go to great lengths to maintain their public facade, while engaging in an extraordinarily extensive, deep and effective campaign of destruction of their victim.
This campaign involves creating convincing complex false narrative about their victim, claiming the innocent victim is nefarious while they are innocent, buying off and manipulating others to support them, finely tuned and astute provocation of the victim so others only see the reactions and do not understand the pain that has been inflicted to the victim, extraordinary rewriting of history in such a compelling way that others believe them, as well as many other underhanded tactics (which the dark personality gets substantial satisfaction from engaging in).
Often, there is evidence to indicate the true nature of the dark personality but people refuse to see it. A picture drawn by the children or by media of the dark personality yelling at someone while thumping a table, evidence of business dealings with parties who knowingly engage in nefarious deals, subtle use of intimidation if questioned, explanations that don’t quite add up, a ‘weirdness’ in relation to closeness and so many more red flags.
The dark personality is extremely confident that their attacks on the victims will be invisible or seen as the fault of the victim. At the very worst people will think “it takes 2 to tango”.
Dark personalities are rarely held to account because of their brilliance at creating a smoke screen when they are doing what they do best, destroying others.
@LeslieMaguire8@NoContextHumans If you want to find an efficient solution to a problem, find a "lazy" person to work on it.
There's no such thing as lazy
An interesting way to frame this:
Not only did he disregard immigration laws, he also sexually assaulted a child.
The sexual assault is secondary
This is a fucked up world, filled with morons whose priorities are fucked
The narcissist views their abuse and manipulation tactics as a skill that determines whether a person dominates or is “smarter than” everyone else. Narcissists who have mastered the “arts“ of narcissistic abuse and manipulation tactics, are considered more dominant by other abusive narcissists rather than more abusive or irrational. And we have to be really careful not to let this insane perspective take hold. There should be no use of narcissistic abuse/manipulation tactics in a civilized world. None at all.
@ADHDForReal In an unusual turn of events I decided that I wasn't going to drink beer at the pub last weekend.
I had 5 or 6 points 6 of coke instead.
I've never slept so well.
@petergates3@AnnieBeale1 Wow, is such an insane response from her, but not surprising
If anything, being told one is British, but not English, is nothing more than colonialism.