"Let's go to Jigawa" - said no one ever 🤣🤣. Jigawa ain't even a real place it's an IBB mistake, and like I said before when I eventually become the Supreme Chancellor of Imperial Hausa States I'm undoing that mistake
And perhaps every man’s love language is being loved for who he is while being believed in for who he is trying to become.
Men are often valued only when effort becomes achievement, so there is something deeply intimate about a woman who sees the striving before success and whose affection does not disappear when success delays.
She recognises his ambition without making achievement the price of her tenderness.
And perhaps every man’s love language is being loved for who he is while being believed in for who he is trying to become.
Men are often valued only when effort becomes achievement, so there is something deeply intimate about a woman who sees the striving before success and whose affection does not disappear when success delays.
She recognises his ambition without making achievement the price of her tenderness.
Part of tawakkul is living with the sober expectation that Allah may test you at any moment , because trusting Him never meant expecting every decree to please you.
This readiness allows the believer, when hardship arrives, to recognise Allah’s will before panic defines the moment, examine his sins without claiming to know the specific reason for the trial, then move quickly into tawbah, sabr, duʿa and whatever obedience the moment requires.
Some trials correct, some expiate and some elevate, so the hardship may itself be a mercy through which Allah closes the distance between our deficient deeds and Jannah.
Tawakkul is expecting good from Allah even when His good reaches you through a decree you would never have chosen.
Tawakkul is tested after the outcome as much as before it. Before it, you trust Allah while taking the means. After it, you refuse to torture yourself with alternate histories in which one perfect decision would have escaped His decree.
Regret may correct negligence. It cannot renegotiate qadr.