See how you have to poison the well with "butch looking meh woman"? People like you can never build people up without tearing others down. You have to pretend 80s supergirl is "meh" and "butch-looking" so Alcock doesn't seem as bad... when it's not about her looks anyway, but her stupid attitude like the stupid snow white girl.
@PoutyLexie1@CJKoziol@darkgroyp@ohsnapclipclap@rwlesq Almost as if evolution has programmed them with the purpose to find/fill their niche and keep it populated. Is your purpose being pedantic? Cause it comes pretty naturally to you.
Just imagine what you would do in those situations and rest assured it's no worse than you would handle them. You're saying you've been abused or mistreated by men going thru these things and the other dude said you don't know how to pick men and unless i'm supposed to believe a guy can't go thru something without lashing out at the nearest female human, the other dude is probably right. Reanalyze.
@the_amnes1ac@honeythief_h Thank you for agreeing with that point. I think we all agree the toxicity is bad, and if it can be changed, then so be it, if it can't, then God help both those individuals. I'd rather not the victim be harmed nor the perpetrator be allowed to perfect his sick craft.
I wish you ever so well. I don't want you to be a psycho or with one and I hope all your best dreams come true. I would never fault you for not knowing a word or anything like that. Let's please let bygones be bygones. I think we ultimately agree that IF your partner is that way, get away from them.
Yeah, nobody would prefer to be in a relationship with a psycho. So if you find out that they are one, leave. But i'm not saying that one or the other is a psycho. I'm saying it's psychotic to equate words to violence or to force. You could say coercion, and maybe I would agree. But coercion isn't force. That's why it's called coercion instead of force. And if you're being coerced into sex, you can ultimately endlessly resist that coercion. But if you're being forced into sex, your resistance level may or may not meet the threshold required to overcome the force placed against you, and in that way your consent is breached, which is the thing that makes rape so bad. Verbal persuasion or coercion could never rise to that level of breaching another's consent. You're living in la la land pretending coercion and force occupy the same level of threat to your ability to consent.