Após a conferência de imprensa do Selecionador Nacional, e no seguimento de uma conversa com o Presidente da Federação Portuguesa de Futebol, tomei a decisão de deixar o estágio da Seleção Nacional.
A seu tempo, direi a verdade a todos os Portugueses sobre as razões que motivaram a minha saída da equipa nacional, à qual sempre me dediquei.
Agora é tempo de desejar boa sorte a Portugal e a todos os meus companheiros de equipa, sem exceção.
Simple final explanation. If you still don't get it, that is your problem.
If you earn N3m and your woman earns N700k, family income is N3.7m. From there you sort your bills, send money to both families, keep a portion each for personal expenses, save and invest.
It is not about volume, it is about vakue. That is why a woman who earns N100k whose income goes to the family is better than the ome that earns N1m but keeps her money to herself. Because her money is in the home, she is more committed to it. With each passing month you do this as a family, she is looking forward to earning more and contributing more just like younare looking to.earn more and contribute more. You can see your family working, bills sorted, savings going up and investment handled.
It wouldn't matter tomorrow if she earns N10m and you make N7m. Over the years, you've both carried the home together as a team. There is no ego or selfishness, just partnership of two people in love committed to the home they are building.
There is no woman that loves you that would sit and watch you carry the bills. That talk of "I'll support" and "I'll come in when he is struggling" is nonsense. That is not how partnership work. You fave the storm together, all day, everyday.
Also, no man is carrying all the bills out of love. It is just ego. That is why he will rather die than partner with his woman, but he can be borrowing money from his guys outside. Yet, the woman's financial progress threatens him if it shows potential to surpass his income because they are not a team. He just needs to always be miles ahead for the marriage to work.
You asked your wife to lend you some money to balance the kids tuition fee, her own children remember because you’re not the only parent.
She then tells you she will borrow you. She tells you she has paid it. She start pressurizing you to pay her back, you start working under pressure to make money so you can pay her back.
She might even start giving you attitude in the house for owing her.
Only for you to then realize that the money you even gave her initially is more than the tuition fee for the kids, but your fraudulent wife lied about the amount to you so as to steal from you thinking she’s smart.
And after realizing, she will still try to manipulate you into paying that money. And for peace to reign, you’ll both laugh it off.
A happy wife, a happy life.
May such marriage avoid me and my homeboys🙏🏽🙏🏽