Akutu Favour

That Real Estate Guru

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To find yourself, think for yourself.
#FindingYou❣

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When I hear, “My husband didn’t allow me to work,” I always ask, "What exactly do you mean?"

Did he stop you from learning a skill? From selling something online? From baking? Sewing? Farming? Freelancing? Creating content? Running a small business from home?

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@jon_d_doe Good morning Agba. How have you been?

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@iamklausenburg Ichie. Good morning to you

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If you are married to this man, then there’s a lot of work to make things better. Can he get better? Yes.

Will it be easy? No.

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A man who doesn’t want to be accountable as a husband will often look for reasons to justify it. That’s when you hear statements like “I’m an African” like being African, is supposed to be the standard for bad behavior.

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If you have nothing to hide, you wouldn’t get jittery and aggressive over your phone. Yes, you may not fancy anyone going through your stuff, but your reactions will be different when you have something to hide, and a wife who knows you well will spot it.

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sometimes, you may even be hit or insulted over those so-called friends.

There’s nothing wrong with demanding good standards in marriage. Don’t expect a person who is doing things he should not be doing to make it easy for you to stop him.

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They will hold on to fellow friends who do similar or worse and will get touchy when you try to discourage such associations. All of a sudden, you are a wife poking her nose where it doesn’t belong. If it leads to an argument,

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Such men will of course not like to discuss the issue because they know what they are doing is bad so whatever it takes to avoid the conversation is what they’d do even if it means hiding in the car, staying out late or pretending to be on the phone.

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Even before you move, understand what it entail, create provisions for yourself and make the process as easy as possible.

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Marriage is meant to make you better, offer you peace, security, and a home, but sometimes it doesn’t seem to work, so people get divorced.

The issue is that many of the people who are divorced secretly regret it because they found out their marital issues

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This is not to scare you. This is real, and the point of it all is to tell you not to rush into divorce. Give your marriage all the chances it deserves, seek professional help, pray, and be sure about having tried all before you move on.

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nobody to satisfy pushing you to have sex with just anyone, use a sex toy, or just be frustrated.

Nobody talks about the extra financial burden, the societal stigma, the effects on the children who sometimes get bullied or are judged as being poorly raised

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@Queeneth01olx My grandma would always say. Because it looks like red doesn't necessarily mean it's red.

You're a very good storyteller. Love the twist in the end. wasn't the regular thing. Kudos sis

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Eventually, we all get to make decisions depending on our peculiar situations, but whatever you do, be careful and know what you are doing

#sham

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"He really loves me. His wife is giving him issues, and he wants to get out. He's already on it."

Yes, so many marriages are at that point where things are so bad. Guys, just stay out, leaving him more time to spend with you.

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Yes, it is possible for him to have an affair with you and be caught up in the heat of the moment.

I am not saying he won't get out, I am not saying he won't marry you. I'm just saying, more times than not, it is false, and you are a sex relief.

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There's a reason you can be told the truth about having to go, and someone else has to be lied to about being on the way home.

There's a reason 'home' is not around you.

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There's a reason someone is at home and you are seen at the hotel.

There's a reason your own calls are restricted, and someone else's calls can be picked around you.

There's a reason this has been going on quietly for ages.