Men,
Before you commit,
Check her close friends.
If they have been in several failed relationships and aborted marriages,
Don't commit.
Respect yourself.
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Men,
GREAT SEX begins in your mind.
A man without mental frame is weak.
• Anxiety kills erections.
• Neediness kills attraction.
Master your mind and your body will follow.
Sex is an expression of a man fully commanding himself.
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My father said this line when he met my wife:
"Stop chasing butterflies when you don’t have a garden."
After the divorce, I lost:
A wife
2 kids
$100,000
50% of the property
It took me way too long to understand what he said to me.
This is what that line really means:
Every day you face battles—that is the reality for all creatures in their struggle to survive. But the greatest battle of all is with yourself—your weaknesses, your emotions, your lack of resolution in seeing things through to the end.
A woman who wants to live with you, will seek excuses to remain.
A woman who wants to leave, will seek excuses to go.
Don't beg any woman to be with you.
Focus on your purpose.
A Kenyan man in 2006 married another man's pregnant wife.
He named the baby after himself.
16 yrs later, he's in court fighting to disentangle himself from the mess.
DON'T sleep or marry another man's baby mama even if they separated.
If you refuse to listen, you'll suffer!
Men,
Be ruthless and unapologetic when executing your revenge against a cheating wife.
Don't forget the disrespect.
Walk with the lesson in your heart.
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Men,
How to revenge a cheating wife:
• End the relationship
• Disconnect from her and her relatives
• Focus on your work
• Approach more women
• Never look back
You may forgive, but don't forget.
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Men,
When cheating happens in a setup where there are children,
The ball game is different.
Don't chase her. It is a bad image.
Simply withdraw attention, commitment and intimacy.
Silently create a hostile environment for her until she storms out.
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Men,
You have the right to be bitter when she cheats.
Let nobody gaslight you.
You were convinced that if you are a nice man, she will be loyal.
So, when she is disloyal, it is fine to be upset.
Use that bitterness to become a beast of results.
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