a girl on tiktok said “detachment is crazy because you’ll still care. still remember their birthday. still hope they’re okay. you just stop showing it” and that’s real shit.
7 things Id love to experience at least once in my life >>>
1.A suprise birthday party
2.Being loved loudly
3. I saw this and thought of you
4."I got you this because I know you like it
5. An "I'm proud of you"
6. An"everything is going to be okay"
7.A true hug
This girl said, “When I lost my spark nobody noticed, because I was still showing up for others. The only way I regained my spark was by isolating myself and limiting how I gave out my resources. People noticed that though.” And that’s really how it be
my therapist dropped a gem: “you can't spend your life avoiding heartbreak or bad things from happening. you have to condition yourself to have appropriate emotional responses but learn to keep moving forward” whewww