@null_bis What the fuck??? You can have vaginismus and get wet at the same time both are physical reactions that have nothing to do with how much you want something?
Yes, you can be a victim of incest and enjoy fictional incest. Yes, you can be a survivor of domestic abuse and have a sadomasochism kink. Yes, you can be a victim of rape and engage with rape depicted in fiction. It's your trauma, nobody else's. How you cope is your right.
@sulfurandante I live on my own by the way, she just drives over to go with me the salon, and I’ll usually buy us dinner. It’s almost funny if it wasn’t so miserable
@sulfurandante I’m white and have very easy hair to work with, I’m also autistic and hate having my scalp touched and am very sensitive to sounds, textures and temperature getting my hair done at 25 is still a fucking nightmare. I have to have my mom come with me and get a treat afterwards lol.
@Noxketch I probably should agree as a rule, but Astarion getting my mommy trauma (pretending to be a super caring parent and then fucking off when things get difficult) does speak to me.
@TodaysHistory13@barryinthefiles@_sn_n Sentience is the important bit, a fetus is not sentient until 20 something weeks. A murderer is a fully sentient creature, they used that sentience terribly but still sentient and should be treated at such
@quinnthomas2213@barryinthefiles@_sn_n A thing that can not live independently of its host does not get a choice :) a newborn baby (before say like 20 something weeks) is not sentient and thus does not get a say. Sentience is my cut off here and a murder/rapist is in fact sentient
@LearnToToad Yes we do, we live a fucking society that’s suppose to be better than the monsters of world. If we let the government torture people eventually they’re going to torture someone innocent.
@ay_JBCtho@Lillyin_London Okay so you’re an actual idiot, death row means 24 hour observation, killing yourself on death row is extremely difficult. Hell my own mother tried to kill herself in a low security jail in the middle of the night and got caught. It’s not something one can do in high security