@B1TCHEVAPORATE @Radfemfuture@jacob_emil_ Financial poverty and poverty of spirit are one of the highest predictors of abuse. Crowder is the perfect example. He is a millionaire yet refused to get a second car for his wife or hire a helper to take care of the animals. This coupled with RP rhetoric is a recipe for DV
@zapatas_mom They’re in complete denial about it. Have created an entire mythology to explain why their looksmatch (who is actually 2-4 levels attractive than them) is inaccessible
A client of mine explained it this way. She reacts the same away around cake as a substance abuser feels around a pile of cocaine. Unlike a drug addict in recovery she will never be able to go “cold turkey” bc she will have to eat for the rest of her life. Incidentally she has lost 60lbs and counting since starting the glp-1 meds
Serious questions for the people who took weight loss drugs after years of not being the weight they wanted to be: Was it really that hard to just stop eating so much? Can you compare the impulse to something else? Do you feel at all ashamed of your lack of self control?
They are mismatched. A beautiful model’s purpose is not to cook and clean. She’s there to look good on his arm, signal his status, and make beautiful babies. He needs to date down with a less attractive woman with calluses on her hands who can keep the house tidy in between her shifts at the dollar store. Or hire a maid
It pains me as a mother and wife to read this. THIS is why a woman should never go 50/50 with men. He won’t suddenly wake up and become a provider after marriage. What you see in the dating phase is what you get. Split the cheapest appetizer and happy hour drinks on date one, your future will be going back to work two weeks after giving birth and doing laundry and scrubbing toilets when you should be on bed rest
é interessante notar como pra muitos homens o interessante sexualmente por uma mulher é instantemente perdido se ele não precisa se "esforçar" pra transar com ela. eles podem querer, a gente tem que ser "condicionada" a querer, por eles...
He should cancel the date immediately. She’s clearly using him to till the soil. Safest bet is to stay home, order door dash, play video games, watch 🌽Hub and call it a night
The control over her financially emotionally and mentally precedes the physical abuse. He has already broken her down. She feels that her situation is hopeless. He threatens her and her family if she leaves. He may appear repentant for a short time which gives her hope he will change. I volunteered for a women’s shelter for many years. I plan to open a np to help survivors when my kids grow up and I’m an empty nester.
@LisaFenDragon There is literally no other reason to be with a man. As a woman you already bring value into his life just by your feminine energy and presence. Being a provider is the bare minimum