i saw a girl on tiktok who said "accountability is so important to me. nobody's perfect, but don't try to flip the script and make my reaction the issue when your actions lit the match" i felt this to the core.
i can always tell when someone likes me more as an accessory vs an actual person bc the moment i go off script it’s a problem. i’m not being valued for my authenticity only my ability to placate you.
falling out of love is one thing but slowly realizing your friend isn't a good person/not in alignment with you and needs to be let go is a pain that isn't talked about enough