Am so proud of my Father, he is not rich but he tries and tries, he has given me education and wisdom and am so proud to be his Son.
#IsaacKabeyaMbunda
Young man:
Take it from someone who knows the importance of a father & the impact of losing one. Forgive your father for not playing his part as you think he ought to have. Enough with the accusations & belittling “If my father was rich, I won’t be suffering today” or “What was he doing when his mates were making money?”, it’s not like his father passed wealth to him & he wasted it
Once you start making money & have people depend on you for their survival, you’d know how hard a father’s role is. I believe fathers aren’t appreciated enough, a lot of them do embarrassing jobs, take disrespect from their bosses, work endlessly barely resting, just to make money to take care of their families
Even if your father is a poor man, still respect him. Know this, no man will be at peace with him being unable to provide for his home. He might not show it, but it eats him every single day. And don't think he's too lazy to think of plan or implement it, life happens, things don't always go according to plan. But know this, every father wishes to be a father his children would be proud of
That your father is a drunkard isn't a reason to disrespect him. Sometimes the only escape he has from thoughts of failing to live up to your expectations is through the bottle. Cut him slack, nothing stresses a man than the inability to give his children the world
Respect your father regardless of his status in society & his financial situation. You have to obey him. You have to love him. You must understand his life path & mistakes. You are a man, you will make mistakes as well. Respect him. Learn OR perish!!!
How did you get over that painful breakup that got you questioning your existence in the middle of the night?
What measures did you put in place to heal from it?
How long did it take you to heal from it?
What did you learn from it?
You disrespect yourself when you beg someone for bare minimum things like love, attention, affection, support, care, precipitation, etc don't do that shit again.
Young man:
That girl you're obsessed with, crushing on, who just can't give you a chance & even belittles you, will be too old for you in 5 years at most
Women are p£rishable, they age like milk, they have a short shelf life
18yrs - starting to get attention from men
19yrs - the arrogance kicks in due to the many options
20yrs - now thinks she's above average guys
21yrs - reaches her peak value
22yrs - value being maintained
23yrs - steady decline
25+yrs - fast decline
30+yrs - hits the wall
Abundance of options for a woman is only for a short period, out of arrogance many waste themselves. Forgetting the candle that burns twice as bright only burns half as long
There's nothing you can tell a woman below 25. She has far too many options to listen to reason. What she fails to realise is, abundance is a woman's short term blessing, but can easily be her long time curse
A woman’s biggest challenge, is having too many options early in life. And because of these options, women try to settle down too late out of arrogance. By then her options will have dwindled since she will no longer have value on the dating market
Learn OR perish!!!
@slopokerodreque@Nthabeemaringa 🤣🤣🤣 even if I don't understand south African language, but I see Jesus, did you just say I should find someone like Jesus 🤣🤣