The only thing more hurtful than someone who is sure that they don't want to be with you is someone who is 'confused.' Someone so hot and cold that you can't keep track of their constantly changing/unclear emotions towards you. Leave them alone. Take their confusion as a FUCK no.
Something that took me YEARS to truly accept is that you will never look like her, because you are not her. You are YOU. You’re original and you’re beautiful and you’re one of a kind and that’s so dope