1. I’m sorry you feel that way.
2. It was just a joke
3. You take things too seriously
4. Why do you make me do this?
5. I'm a good person
6. I didn't say that (whereas you quote them verbatim)
7. Give me a specific example/date
8. When you desperately try to tell them you know they're gaslighting you and then they call you the gaslighter so you start doubting yourself.
9. If you didn't .......... I wouldn't be acting this way
10. Stop doing this to yourself (and it's just you crying from what they did to you)
11. “I don’t want to fight” when you’re trying to have a conversation about their behavior.
12. May I present to you the narcissists prayer:
That didn’t happen
And if it did, it wasn’t that bad
And if it was, that’s not a big deal
And if it is, it’s not my fault
And if it was, I didn’t mean it
And if I did, you deserved it
13. When you're in an argument with them and you bring up an issue and they shift it to make it all your fault instead.
14. Stop making this all about you
15. They will do whatever it takes to avoid a feeling of shame. Like transferring the blame easily.
Finally, No specific phrase, but someone who will NEVER admit their fault and hold themselves accountable when they're wrong is a narcissist.
Everyone makes mistakes, and being self aware and accountable enough to admit it is an empathetic response you won't get from a narcissist.
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