Meet Himanshu Jangra and Sejal Pawar :
Himanshu Jangra :
> Went on Pranit More's show
> Made the "370 biryani vasool" remark
> After that
> Got trolled everywhere
> Got abused online
> Apologised publicly
> Got fired from his job
Sejal Pawar :
> She is a doctor
> Went on the same show
> Made jokes about dead bodies
> Said she and her friends
> Make fun of male dead bodies
> Make fun of D size of dead bodies
> After that
> Gained more than 2 lakh followers
> Wasn't fired from her job
> Didn't face outrage on the same level as Himanshu
> Many self-proclaimed feminists are defending her
The question is If Himanshu deserved criticism for what he said, that's a separate discussion. But why is Sejal Pawar not receiving the same level of backlash? Why is she gaining followers and support instead of facing similar consequences?
Shouldn't standards be applied equally, regardless of whether the person is a man or a woman?
Man in 20-25s be like
20 years: Omg you're so young
21 years : Live your best life man
22 years : You only live once
23 years: Work hard, play harder
24 years: You're still young you have time
25 years: What have you been doing the past 5 years?
26 years: You're late
just realised I will turn 25 by end of this year. Fuck. It's just hit me , years go so fast. I grew up so old so fast and still I feel i didn't grow up, i feel like a teenager only.aur ab tak kuch ukhada nhi life me.
You do not have unlimited time.
Your death will come on an ordinary day, in the middle of unfinished plans, and the world will continue on without you.
For every person seeing the 2.5Cr IIT Package, and feeling bad. Please remember:
> There are marketing agencies making over $200k a year in profits.
> There are financial analysts taking home โน2Cr+ in Asset Management bonuses.
> There are day traders casually printing โน1 Lakh+ on a single Thursday expiry.
> There are SaaS Sales Executives hitting โน80L - โน1Cr in commissions alone.
> There are ghostwriters charging $4,000 a month per client to write LinkedIn posts.
> There are video editors billing $100/hour to edit for US YouTubers.
> There are Shopify dropshippers doing โน50 Lakh/month in revenue with zero inventory.
> There are Instagram influencers with 100k followers getting paid โน1.5 Lakh for a single reel.
> There are D2C founders selling simple products and clocking โน5Cr+ in annual revenue.
> There are Corporate Law Partners taking home โน2Cr+ in annual profit shares.
> There are Merchant Navy Captains earning โน15 Lakh/month while sailing.
> There are coaching center owners in Tier-2 cities making more profit than funded startup CEOs.
> There are wedding photographers booking โน8-10 Lakh packages for a single weekend.
> There are cloud kitchen owners operating out of 200 sq. ft. and clocking โน5Cr in annual sales.
> There are luxury real estate agents making โน14 Lakh commission on a single villa sale in Goa.
So if you are feeling bad about the paycheck. Here you go.
I just gave you more reasons to feel bad. Have fun
I woke up at 1:27 PM today.
I checked my phone. I had missed a 1:00 PM meeting with the CIO.
My Slack status had been set to "Away" for nine hours.
He sent a message: "We're waiting on the call. Where are you?"
I didn't panic. I didn't apologize.
I rubbed the sleep out of my eyes and typed:
"Sorry! I was up until 4:30 AM manually re-indexing the SQL fragmentations. The automated script failed and I didn't want to risk data corruption during business hours."
(I was actually up until 4:30 AM watching a 4-hour YouTube documentary about airplanes).
His reply came in 10 seconds:
"Wow. Thank you for catching that. Please, get some rest. We can reschedule."
The Lesson: Management doesn't know what we do. If you use words like "fragmentation" and "corruption," they won't fire you. Theyโll thank you for your sacrifice.
Incompetence looks exactly like martyrdom if your vocabulary is technical enough.
Iโm going back to bed.