The biggest favor a woman can do for you is to leave you.
Not leave you alone, let you be, leave you for a while.
No. Leave you.
Because two things are happening: she thinks she can do better by getting a better man than you AND she’s letting you know she was never yours- it was just your turn.
You do not have control over any of those scenarios.
Just say OK and do not add a single word to her. No ands ifs or buts.
Just OK.
Then go build yourself to a point where she can never have access to you ever again.
I learnt that lesson 20 years ago⤵️
Not every relationship is designed to last forever.
Some are designed to teach.
When the lesson is complete, let the relationship complete too.
Gracefully.
It is an unwritten rule of life that after every prolonged period of hardship and uncertainty, there comes a season of remarkable progress and breakthroughs across multiple areas of your life. The only requirement is that you do not give up on yourself.
@sijuagain Focus entirely on your own execution and pace, because real progress isn't about hitting an arbitrary timeline, but about ensuring that every setback you experience actually leaves you sharper, smarter, and more resilient than you were before.
Afrika immunity is high- we eat maize by the roadside roasted by men. Wana chapa chapa mahindi after wametoka kojoa. Wana shake shake shake and continue roasting the maize we enjoy. Kwani… where do they wash their hands? 😂