Andy Ntombi Yom Xhosa ❤️🇿🇦

Loving, fun, outspoken and humble 🌺

[Black Girl @t_sadiity]

Does anyone actually enjoy a whole day at home with no visitors & no plans

[Andy Ntombi Yom Xhosa ❤️🇿🇦 @AndyMachange]

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[stressed @onlystresstoday]

PLEASE give yourself the chance to meet someone new instead of going back to a person from your past who didn’t value you when they had you

[jezz @JezziiB]

I’ll forever be the girl that gets turned off sexually when I’ve been neglected emotionally because my body will not crave what my heart can't trust.

[Bongekile Mthembu🇿🇦 @_Bongekile_]

There’s a lady in our estate baking from her unit and going door to door in this freezing weather with a box of samples to introduce her cakes. That kind of courage and hustle deserves recognition💕

[Ous'B 💚 @BongsMahlangu_]

Y’all ever dated someone who hated you but for some reason they kept wasting your time and energy instead of leaving you alone?

[Danilo @odedanilo]

if we being honest , this was extremely good but there is no need for a season 2 👍🏽

[Enny🌸 @_simplyenny]

After watching the Polygamist, I have a question for MEN. As a man,

What can a woman offer you so that you won't cheat or sleep around?

[femiiiiii. @femiiiszn]

fortunately, i do give up on people. you can't continuously drain me, disappoint me, and disrespect me while expecting me to keep being kind.

[small waist, pretty face 🫦 @oddettem]

You cannot repair a relationship with a man who believes the problem is always your reaction, never his behavior. No relationship can grow when one person refuses to take accountability. If every hurtful action, broken promise, disrespectful comment, or selfish decision somehow gets turned around and blamed on how you responded, the real issue never gets addressed. You end up spending all your time defending your feelings instead of being heard.

[💫 @LebogangM__]

@Urfv_shammy Choose the one who feels like home, not the one who feels like a challenge.

[𝕊𝕒𝕞𝕞𝕪 @FromN5_]

before i give up on people, i always make sure i really tried. so nobody can act stupid when they don’t hear from me anymore.

[Big_Gift @GTgiftie]

@kush_147 Sometimes people don’t really love you for who you are, but for how easy you are to access, how much you understand them, and how often you forgive them.

[Sir Nkosi @Sanele_NS]

@AtuanyaKene One of the hardest truths about relationships is that forgiveness and restoration are not always the same thing.

You may forgive someone completely and still find that your heart interacts with them differently than before.

[Adekunbi🌹❤️ @Adhekunbi]

If you date me, leave your pride and spirit of poverty with your ex. Here we apologize, hustle together, accept our mistakes, and fix them together.

[Princess A @cessadelove1]

The older I get, the more I see why God wants us to depend on Him first. Humans will disappoint you every time.

[Sameer @oosafarnama]

It’s so attractive when people apologise for responding late. or when they keep you in the loop so you don’t start overthinking. the skill of communication is very attractive. basic consideration these days, it stands out cause so many people just disappear and leave you guessing

[Andy Ntombi Yom Xhosa ❤️🇿🇦 @AndyMachange]

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[Sameer @oosafarnama]

Stop letting people consume you. They didn't call? Go to sleep. They didn't message you? Put your phone down and have a better day. They left you on read? Delete the conversation. They didn't make an effort? Match their energy. Never let your happiness depend on anyone.

[Nandi 🤍💜🤍 @pallnandi]

You can love someone with your entire soul and still leave them. Because love stops meaning anything when it costs you your peace.

[Andy Ntombi Yom Xhosa ❤️🇿🇦 @AndyMachange]

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[Kush @kush_147]

It's selfish to enter someone's life, see that they're a loving, cheerful, and good person, and decide to ruin their present because you haven't dealt with your own issues. Leave people alone if you have no intention of showing up with sincerity

[k @kathitalareina]

things I've learned don't mean anything:

-sleeping together
-meeting their family
-no protection
-talking about the future
- calling for hours
-"I love you"