There’s this silence that you go into when you feel like your world is crumbling. Yet at the same time you can feel there’s a rebirth. Somethings needs to die so that others are born. When the end , marks the beginning. It is in those moments of unknowns that your faith needs to be stronger than your fear and your needs to control the situation. The process of it all is necessary. The birth of newness is near. Peace , happiness and God restorations is assured. 😌🥺🤍
We’ve lost the art of fighting for friendships, relationships, or simply people worth fighting for. Everyone seems to be wearing their ego on their sleeves.
I really think people underestimate how tired you can be from just having too much on your mind !
Not even physically tired !
Just tired of remembering things, handling things, thinking ahead, fixing stuff, making decisions, being needed !
That kind of tired is different😮💨!
I don’t know but I think I haven’t been a good friend lately. I’m showing up less. Not answering calls. Not seeing conversations through. And I think it’s only excusable because every one of my friends is in different seasons of their lives but I feel like I could show up more.
One random August morning, you suddenly realize how much life has changed. So many things happened, so many situations passed, and somewhere along the way, you changed too. Maybe not everything turned out the way you imagined, but somehow, you made it this far.
You need to be honest with your friends, especially, when it comes to the times that you can’t do certain things or even show up when they need it.
Conversations save you from a lot of discomfort with the people that you care about.
it's important to allow yourself to go through it, life will not always be rainbows & butterflies. sometimes it will be hard to hold one positive thought. this is okay. life is about allowing yourself to feel what is happening without being consumed by it.
I feel like I make people uncomfortable because I’m not willing to pretend with them to coddle their ego. It’s not my intention or goal to be a villain but I noticed when you refuse to enable toxicity or straight up delusion, you’re framed as one either way
Underrated life advice: Just be easy to work with. Show up on time. Do what you said you'd do. Bring solutions, not problems. Never create drama. Be responsive. Be emotionally consistent. Be kind. People will always want to support someone who just makes their life easier.
Unfortunately, being likeable is not overrated beloveds. It gets you far, especially in the workplace. 💀💀 Plenty of qualified people have been overlooked because people just didn’t connect with them.