until you can empathise with a woman on the basis of her humanity, and not her proximity (imagine if that was your mum, sister, daughter etc), you still have work to do tbh
Chicago Rapper, Vic Mensa defends Megan Thee Stallion from misogynistic men still blaming her for Tory Lanez's downfall:
"I feel like Megan Thee Stallion is a microcosm for misogynoir at large. Someone recently told me she can't keep trying to ruin people's lives. By getting shot? cheated on? How you ruin somebody's life by them shooting you? How could you do this to me? You ran your body directly into my bullets.
Male artists are celebrated for shooting people. On the other hand, female artists are denigrated for getting shot. Let a rapper kill somebody, they sails through the goddamn roof."
Your daughter just got her first period.
Do not tell her she is a woman now.
Tell her what estrogen does.
Tell her what progesterone does.
Tell her her cycle has four phases and each one will feel different.
Give her information. Not a new identity.