Maybe I’m not woke enough but I don’t understand “I take all the possible precautions an agonize over being punctual but I’m always mysteriously late to every single thing I go to” people. Like I don’t think I believe you man
I’m almost positive it was worse in her time. Mind you the average person is still largely unaware of Black women’s contributions to the civil rights movement bc of the active suppression by their male counterparts sooooo
I frequently try to anticipate my friends and loved ones’ time blindness of my own accord but the Expectation that I should Have to play little games with you to get you to follow through on plans YOU had a part in making is demeaning and I hope you recognize that
Not over exaggerating when I say growing up with a mom with "time blindness" was a fucking life ruiner. Like, an actual traumatizing childhood of being embarrassingly late to every single game, practice, recital, graduation, ceremony, concert. You HAVE to do something about it.
and trust me I get it bc as a reflex I hate picky eaters but i’ve learned that it really doesn’t affect me and to give people grace and understanding. I think disliking picky eaters is also rooted in control and puritanical bs